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User
Posted 20 May 2016 at 16:44

Fingers crossed this time is the last x

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 20 May 2016 at 21:22
Chris

thinking of you lovely man, hope this sorts out some of your issues at last. Its been a real tough ride for you and Mrs Chris.

xx

Mo

User
Posted 20 May 2016 at 21:26
Hope all went well.

Thank you for all the help and encouragement you give.

Best wishes

User
Posted 21 May 2016 at 08:22

Hope all went well, Chris and you start flowing at full rates again soon!

Paul

Stay Calm And Carry On.
User
Posted 21 May 2016 at 09:12

Hi Chris what a rough ride you have had, let's hope this sorts things out in the peeing lots front.

Keep posting with your upbeat words and support to others while you are going through the mill yourself, thanks

Chris/Woody

Life seems different upside down, take another viewpoint

User
Posted 21 May 2016 at 18:29
Oh CHRIS

You have my sympathy, John was supposed to have the dilation treatment but it's been decided that an SPC will be needed for life so no point in going through more procedures. I think it's bearable if you truly believe it will make a difference, John had a CT scan recently, as you know, and it showed his prostate had infiltrated the bladder to such an extent that there is no point in more surgery.

On the other hand, I've got everything crossed that this latest op will improve the flow.

All the luck in the world

DM

User
Posted 21 May 2016 at 18:40
Yet another disaster went into retention, back in hospital, they tried another dilatation without anaesthetic but bailed out, just waiting to see if another SPC is going to be fitted.

Hey ho such is life

Thanks Chris

User
Posted 21 May 2016 at 23:17

Chris,

Naturally, we are all optimistic about our treatments and largely expect these will not involve continuing problems other than the usual side effects. You have been very unlucky for one reason or another and it says much for your strength of purpose that with the benefit of hindsight you would go through all this again.

We are all with you in hoping all these further problems with soon end.
,

Barry
User
Posted 22 May 2016 at 07:49
Chris

Oh my I feel so bad for you, so many procedures, ops and now another retention. I really wish that you could just get something that would make your life easier.

You still stay positive and upbeat despite everything which tells me that you are one strong man.

I will be thinking of you

All my best wishes

Xx

Mo

User
Posted 22 May 2016 at 17:40

Sorry to hear of your troubles Chris hope things improve for you ..All the best mate Andy

User
Posted 22 May 2016 at 19:13

Sorry to hear how things went the other day Chris. I just said a rude word loudly, on your behalf.

Sent with wishes of support. You've helped me a lot more than I'm able to repay.

 

User
Posted 22 May 2016 at 21:03

Sorry to hear things didn't go as planned. Hope solutions are found quickly so you can get on with your life without worry.

Paul

Stay Calm And Carry On.
User
Posted 22 May 2016 at 22:55

Thanks for all the messages of support it really does help.

My flow rate had been decreasing and following a meeting with one on my consultants we decided another dilatation was on the cards. Following a cystoscopy the flow had increased but it was thought best to get in there and see what was happening. The theatre list was quite full and I mentioned we did have medical insurance, this meant I could have the op done on a day the surgeon did not work at the NHS.

So I had the op Friday at 4PM and left the private hospital at 9PM Friday night all was well and no catheter was fitted, it was only a small stretch. Since having my stricture I have frequently measured my flow rate using a boots urine bottle and my watch. On Saturday morning the flow rate was 5mls/sec by midday Saturday it was down to 1mls/sec, a call to and then from the private hospital resulted in me being directed to our local NHS urology ward for help if required. By 4.30 pm Saturday I had gone into retention probably one of the worst experiences in my life there is nothing you can do yourself to resolve the problem. We went to the NHS urology ward, every bump and pothole in the road feels like a massive crater. The first course of action was to try and fit a catheter, I have heard many horror stories of guys having catheters fitted by unqualified staff, it is not much better when attempted by a qualified registrar, the attempt failed but I did leak and pass some urine in between attempts. A measly 5 ml of morphine did nothing for the pain.

The next course of action was to get a flexi scope and get a guide wire in “I will be back in about half an hour” from the registrar did not go down well. They got the flexi so far in but it would not pass into the bladder after a few attempts the got a guide wire in but could not get catheter into the bladder. The next step was to use the cooks s curve dilators, bear in mind these are normally used under general or spinal anaesthetic. They got the first and second size in but it was extremely painful and felt like it was tearing through the flesh. The dilators start at 8 and go up in 2s to a 20, because I was now leaking urine and in considerable pain we had a discussion and bailed out of the dilatation with the thought of fitting the super pubic catheter.

Once all the equipment was out I was again leaking and passing urine. They were not keen to fit the SPC on the ward and I was not keen to have another one either. They took the view less is better and let’s see what happens in the next few hours. Overnight I was passing small amounts of urine at a fairly slow rate. I was seen Sunday morning by another Doctor who was not keen to fit the SPC on the ward and surprised me when he said they only fit SPCs to RP patients as a last resort because the bowel gets moved during RP and they can go into the bowel instead of the bladder.

Sunday morning my flow was 0.55mls,sec (3minutes to do 100ml) in the afternoon I again went into retention, desperate times call for desperate measures and I got one of my catheters out and tried that, although I do not think it got into the bladder it did release the urine, a couple of subsequent visits to the loo have proved slow but successful.

Hopefully I get a catheter fitted tomorrow.

Thanks Chris

User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 04:21

wow chris, what a horrible time your having with this, made me squirm just reading about it, here's to the catheter fitting going easy

regards
nidge

run long and prosper

'pooh how do you spell love'

'piglet you dont spell love -you just feel it'

User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 05:21
Chris, that is quite a detailed account of a weekend in hell for you. I really hope that you get this sorted out. I've not had any problems like this at all and like Nidge , it made me squirm . But I really wish you well ( again!).

John

User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 05:49
Hi Chris,

I'm so sorry that you've gone through all this. No one should have to. I really hope that everything will be sorted for you soon.

Steve

User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 05:52

Maybe I won't have breakfast this morning after all 😬😬😬
Not again Chris. You have the worst luck whilst just trying to get better and move on. I don't understand why a catheter can't be just pushed through as normal ? Does the whole urethra collapse or something ? I hope it all improves soon for you.

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade

User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 06:17

Hi Chris, what a terrible experience I would not wish that on my worst enemy. I feel for you and yes it made me squirm as well, I do hope things go better for you as you are having it really rough at the moment. Why could they not do a spinal anasthetic for you in the hospital if that is way to get the job done?

Regards Chris/Woody

Life seems different upside down, take another viewpoint

User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 06:39

Really feel for you Chris. Hope it's all a bit easier now

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
User
Posted 23 May 2016 at 08:04
I am so sorry to hear of your ordeal. I just don't know you coped with it all - braver man than me.

I very much hope things improve for you very quickly.

 
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