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Dads small cell cancer

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Posted 18 Jul 2015 at 17:20

Too right Johsan my husband went to offer to cut the grass however my brother is popping over with dads grandson and doing it then.I still dont think he should drive anywhere and the subject of a wheelchair (which Mum had after chemo ) came up at least he wouldnt feel so tired and could still get out and about xx

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Posted 18 Jul 2015 at 19:56

Would your mum be strong enough to push his chair?

I know other members could but if he is reluctant to go in a chair perhaps it could be hinted that it might be nice for your mum to also get a bit of exercise and fresh air.

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
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Posted 19 Jul 2015 at 08:36

well this is the thing Mum had a blue badge after her operation and chemo and doesnt even walk to the shops for anything.I think Dad has fussed over her alot.Today she is gardening as Dad is too tired.I am sure she can do more than she does and she will when he isnt here.Dad even joked about her driving again.
He feels better today but still has limited energy and has to pace himself.

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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 16:34

Hospice nurse came and discussed Dads end of life wishes as he want to die at home (assuming mums cancer isnt back then and she can manage.He sorted out the DNR stuff and a "just incase box" of emergency meds is being dropped off Dad said for the coming months.He seems good today but admits he wont be going far from home now.Infection has gone for now so we just wait and see.One day at a time and all that love to all Paula xx

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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 16:42

Hi Paula,

I wish I could do something to make things easier for you.

Thinking of you all.

Steve x

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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 16:51

All our very best wishes and love to you all. Have been thinking of you all x

Chris and Elaine

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade

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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 16:53

Enjoy every minute you have. *** work and your "caring" colleagues.

Concentrate on what is important to you and yours.

Thinking of you

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 16:55

hi paula

just let you u know you are doing great by your family

nidge

run long and prosper

'pooh how do you spell love'

'piglet you dont spell love -you just feel it'

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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 18:22

Johsan no one has been in touch from work...why would they ive only worked there 11 yrs.!! I feel like the end of this journey is speeding up although i could be wrong and Dad has been told to call the hospice nurse and not suffer in silence.I hope he can enjoy his birthday on sat as Dad is such a family man i cant imagine how he will feel when his grandchildren give him cards etc as i dont think the little ones know how ill he is. xx

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Posted 20 Jul 2015 at 18:35
Paula

your employers suck big time.

You will be surprised how much your Dad can withstand knowing that his little grandchildren will be there to see him at the weekend. I hope you can all make it a special day for him once again.

xx

Mo

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Posted 26 Jul 2015 at 19:34

well Dad has had an amazing turn around this week.His sister came up to see him and he went to my brothers for his birthday lunch then the rest of us saw him later.He looked much better and i am sure no one thought about it being his last birthday just a happy family one for a lovely Dad.He had 50 something messages on facebook and calls from abroad from his brother.A positive end to a rough few weeks and lovely to see him more like himself.I return to work monday and hope everyone on here has as good a week as possible Paula xx

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Posted 26 Jul 2015 at 21:05
Paula

FABULOUS

XX

Mo

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Posted 26 Jul 2015 at 21:09

Hi Paula,

That's really good news.  You deserve something nice to happen for your family.

Steve x

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Posted 26 Jul 2015 at 21:16
Paula

So good to see such a positive post

Arthur

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Posted 26 Jul 2015 at 22:06

Lovely news Paula.

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
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Posted 26 Jul 2015 at 22:20

A weekend you'll remember for a long time. Brilliant.

Paul

Stay Calm And Carry On.
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Posted 27 Jul 2015 at 04:23

glad you had a good weekend, hope your face aches from smileing and laughing

nidge

run long and prosper

'pooh how do you spell love'

'piglet you dont spell love -you just feel it'

User
Posted 27 Jul 2015 at 07:00

A weekend of happy memories. Lovely

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
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Posted 12 Aug 2015 at 07:55

Dad has been quite well the last 2 weeks.A few days he felt unwell and v tired tbh i think there has been a bug doing the rounds so maybe that was what it was.I thought his arms looked thin as he doesnt eat much really.
I had 10 days annual leave so took a bit of a step back and visited relatives with my husband some i hadnt seen in 16 yrs which was lovely.I put on 5 lbs not dashing around at work and now realise how much ive been doing and how badly they have treated me!! Im sure i got the job i went for but it was too many hrs,now i try out for 32 hrs in a clean lovely place this week :) It isnt ideal with Dads situation but who knows a fresh start maybe the distraction i need.
Best wishes to you all on this rollercoaster ride Paula xx

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Posted 12 Aug 2015 at 08:20
Paula

I saw you were online and was hoping you would post. Good to hear your Dad is about as well and settled as can be.

Much better to read that you have had a well deserved break and a good time away from your horrible employers. I am so pleased you have got a trial for a new job with committed and regular hours. I really hope you like them and they like you. I am sure Lyn or others will be able to give you advice on checking out any possible contract, you do not want a repeat of this last experience.

Take care

xx

Mo

 
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