Thank you all for your messages I will answer the private emails later.
I know I'm not the sharpest tool in the box on here but I have always felt welcome and still do.
All you lovely OH on here please make sure you give your men a big hugg each and everyday for no reason and all you guys do the same I miss my daily huggs.
Eric had a good send off nothing went wrong just as he planned it.
Sorry to you that are religious there were no hyms prayers just the story of Eric's .What he did want was time for reflection for people that have beliefs and I said a prayer for him.
There were tears but most of all chuckles and laughter at the story's about Eric.
Carolann managed to carry her dad in everyone was so proud of her.
This was read at the end of service.
COMPOST HEAP
Once I've bade my last goodbye
cut the cord to take my leave.
Don't be sorrowful and cry or sit in
solitude and grieve..
Shout me your last farewell,making sure I'm dead asleep.
Then without prayers or tolling bells
just dump me on the compost heap.
Play for me some red-hot jazz
then some Benny Goodman swing.
Jive and twist and razzamatazz joke and laugh and dance and sing.
Be happy through the night long wake don't think about me being missed.
Just carry on for old times sake till everyones completly pissed.
Then go your ways and be not sad and think about me not at all.
Except if things go really bad all you have to do is call.
Go to where the composts spread
shout my name up to the sky.
And if you wake me from the dead
you'll not be more suprised than I.