Mick's day of reckoning part 2

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Posted 01 Jun 2014 at 08:18

Sod cleaning, would rather be making Neil a bacon buttie anyday ! Seriously, Mick and Mo, hope things settle down a bit for you. This damn illness is non stop. Am just about to transport Neil to the local car boot sale, might just sell him if the mood comes over me !

Love Fiona. x

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Posted 01 Jun 2014 at 08:52

I know my house is clean(ish!) but I am also aware that I am untidy. Mainly because I need the time to craft and garden and now after Tuesday to be ready to act as nurse if necessary.

I have 4 surviving sisters, ALL of whom are house proud but, in my opinion anyway, have a less fulfilling life than me because housework is more important than working on the veg plot or making a beautiful card, or going out with my husband for a walk in the sun

The housework and ironing will still be there ready and waiting for me.

It won't hide from me so I won't seek it! but I'll know where it is.

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 12:56

Mo has asked if I can come on here and let everyone know that her beloved husband, Mick, died peacefully this morning. Nobody could have done more for a loved one, especially in the last ten weeks of hospital and hospice care, than Mo. She is understandably devastated by Mick's death, but was glad she was able to bring him home in time.

Personally, I was so pleased I was able to say goodbye and pay my respects to Mick today. A very lovely, funny friend who will be very sadly missed by me and my family.

It such a shame that it takes such an awful set of circumstances, to find such dear people to become friends with. Tonight, Ness and I are going to go to The Moorings Pub, the place where we held the Newark meet ups, to raise a glass in memory of Mick, and to Mo who has been the best wife one could wish for.

RIP Mick,

Love Si and Ness xxxx

Don't deny the diagnosis; try to defy the verdict

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 13:06

Just read your post, Si and am lost for words but will try. Cannot begin to express the love and support Mo has shown to so many on the forum whilst going through such a hard time. A wonderful, courageous lady with an equally wonderful husband. My love and condolences and a piece of my heart goes out to you.

Fiona. x

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 13:31

My Dear Mo,

I am totally devastated by this news, I was bemoaning a bit of pain when this so sad news was posted. You could have done no more for Mick and he in turn has fought this bloody disease with all his might. The love you have for each other has shone through.

I can say no more the tears are running down my cheeks, me a battle hardened veteran.

God bless you Mo, Rest in Peace Mick.

Love Barry & Karen

Si thank you for passing on this awful news, please pass on mine, and the many other thoughts from others on here that will duly come to Mo when you see her next. Thank you.

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 13:51

Dear Mo,

I am absolutely gutted to hear this terrible news. My wife Lynn and I have followed your posts all the way through and have been so impressed with you and Mick. Your devotion to eachother shone through, and you both gave the fight everything you had.

We were all hoping for a miracle, for such a lovely couple, who even found the strength to smile through all your struggles.

Our Hearts Are With You Mo,

George & Lynn

xxx

B2PCa

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 14:00

The love you shared with Mick shines like a beacon throughout your postings. You will rightly be devastated now, but remember the many good times you had together and be proud of all you did.

Paul

Stay Calm And Carry On.

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 14:04

Dearest Mo

I am deeply saddened to hear that Mick has fallen victim to this hideous disease. I don't think any woman could love a man as much as you do Mick. Words fail me but I hope you can find some comfort in knowing he put up the best fight anyone could.

Rest in Peace Mick

Nil desperandum

Allister

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 14:11

Thankyou Si superman for that lovely post, you Ness and the girls are part of my extended family forever, nobody could have done more for us and especially this morning. Love you so much.

RIP my wonderful, funny,courageous Man. I love you more than words would ever say xxxx

I promised him that I would carry on with this forum and I will, especially if I can be of any help or support to anyone now or in the future.

Karen and I are still coming to Leicester, Mick would have wanted it that way.. I certainly do as I want to celebrate his wonderful life with all of you and probably get a little drunk in the process.

God bless and stay strong please know that I take enormous strength from all of your kindness and support.

xxx

and just this one last time Mick

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 14:51

Dear Mo,

It will be lovely to see you and Karen at Leicester and I know that George and company will be raising a glass or two to Mick and yourself. Even in this sad time you take time out to wish us well and to offer your continued support and comfort is so kind of you.

You have so many wonderful memories to look back on and I know that will help see you through.

Thinking of you,

Love

Barry & Karen xxx

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 14:53

Dear Mo, I am so sorry to hear this, and can only imagine how you feel now. As others have said you couldn't have done more for Mick, and in time I hope this will help. For some time though the surreality of it all will be with you, please let others do as much for you as possible. You must be exhausted, but with your focus on the care you have given Mick you probably don't quite realise how exhausted.

In time I am sure memories of happier times will bring you comfort but until then all you can do is take each day a step at a time, take care, love Janet

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 15:05

Dearest Mandy

Your immense love and respect for Mick have been wholly evident right through his journey and it is true that no one could have done more, shown more love and understanding and support to Mick and also to many others here and elsewhere.

Like everyone else here I was devastated to hear the news today and can only be thankful that you have managed to move heaven and earth to get him home, where he clearly wanted to be and to have the support of Si and Ness, I know has been truly wonderful. What friends they have turned out to be.

Per Ardua Ad Astra Mick.

Can't wait to give you a hug at Leicester Mandy.

Rest in Peace big man.

With our my love and sincere condolences

Allison and John

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 16:03

I've only been a member of this site for a very short while but have followed yours and others' posts regarding your journey. Please accept my deepest sympathy

You can tell from the comments here how much you and your husband were respected and loved.

Best Wishes from Sandra

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 16:55

Dear Mo

I was very saddened to hear the news about Mick. I have followed your postings over the last few months and cannot imagine the strength needed for you both to deal with whatever was thrown at you by this terrible disease. I really don’t know what to say except if you carry on with the forum your contributions will be invaluable in giving help and support to others who have to get through similar situations.

Condolences and best wishes

Alan

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 17:08

My SS,

I am so very sad to hear this news, like so many others I have shed tears today. Both you and Mick have fought so very hard with this terrible disease. I am glad that you got him home in time , and that Si was there to help you through. It is almost as if he held on to be at home with you.

My thoughts and love are with you.

RIP Mick.

BFN

Julie XX

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 17:31

Dear Mo

Kim and I are so very sorry to read your news. It's very quiet and reflective here at the moment.

We have followed your story from the beginning and have always admired yours and Mick's unwaivering strength, determination and love for each other at all times. Moreover, throughout everything you have still had time and love for your friends and fellow travellers.

Two amazing people and a great sadness one has had to leave. RIP Mick.

We hope the much deserved love you have gathered on your journey now aids you through this most difficult times.

Sincere condolences and love

Veronica and Kim

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 18:39

I am relatively new to site but have been following your journey for some weeks now, Please accept my deepest sympathy

Frank

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 19:38

Mo, I really struggle with what to say at times like this. Si let me know this morning and I was shocked by this very sad news.

As you know I had the honour of meeting Mick at Newark and spent a lovely few hours in his and your company. Mick is, and will continue to be, an inspiration to me and many others. Your love, devotion and commitment to Mick are obvious as is his courage, fortitude, dignity and humility. All this will live on through your wonderful posts.

Please take care of yourself at this difficult time. You have your family and friends for support and you have all of us here.

RIP Mick, a true gent

Bri xx

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 20:30

What another very sad day.

Mo, (Mandy), we send our very deep felt condolences to you at this very sad time, what more can I say, I am gutted, we are so glad we managed to meet up at Newark. Remember ALL those good times.

RIP Mick, join the get together in the sky!!!!

Chris and Shirley. xxxx

PS. when I can find my thread I will add Mick to "Absent Friends" C.

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Posted 02 Jun 2014 at 21:10

Mo so sorry to read your sad news. Both you and Mick fought this pc with dignity humour and a lot of love for each other and always found time to advise others if we needed advice me included. Iam glad when your ready to stay on the forum as your knowledge will help many people on here.

Eric shed a tear when I told him today although he had never met you both in person .I always told him your replys and best wishes you sentt.Some people say it must be easier to know that our OH are on borrowed time.Its not.

Eric and I bothe send our deepest condolances to you and your family.x

Carol Wric

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