Welcome home Stuart
Glad all seems well.
Hope progress continues
Best Wishes
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He's been through the mill Trish (well you both have in different ways) but hopefully with a bit of sleep under his belt Stuart will pick up.
While Stuart is resting take that time to rest yourself.
Can't have you flaking out now can we.
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Gosh Trish missed this post with all the activity - as have others no doubt. Please offer Stu all the best. I was told I had El to help me through , and I'm hearing he has you just as much. Where would we be without you. Seriously. Honestly. Small steps forwards which is constant advice. I wouldn't want to be in his shoes again , but I'm recovering already and alive , and "monster" told me he loved me tonight for no reason ๐
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all the best for Thursday Stuart will be thinking of you Andy
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Trish and Stuart
All the very best for Thursday.
Your post is lovely Trish you have captured the love you both share in such a meaningful way. I only saw it just now as despite the time you posted it new threads can take a while to appear. I think it is common for anyone facing such surgery to be very quiet about it all until it is really about to happen it is a kind of coping mechanism I guess.
At least now with your help and that of his medical team Stuart is ready.
It seens amazing how often someone living so close has PCa but I guess with the stats so high we should not be so surprised, at least you know you have someone very close at hand who will understand as well as all us lot of course!
Will be thinking of you both so be sure to let us know how Stuart is recovering and how you are doing too.
Best wishes
Xx
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So good you have been able to talk together. I hope the surgery goes well, keep us posted !
Regards, Fiona.
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Very best of luck to you both. I shall be thinking of you x
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Hope all goes well on Thursday and you don't have any travel problems
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MASSIVE best wishes tomorrow Stuart and Trish and hope the journey ok !! You may be in bed already ;-)
I asked El if we could do something dirty on our final night , and she smiled lovingly and got the gardening gloves out .........
Very poor joke I know . Let us all know everything went well x
Chris and El x
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Hope all goes well tomorrow for Stuart Trish - challenges ahead but I was relieved to be getting rid of the pesky cancer and I am sure you guys will be to.
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Loads of love and good wishes but you are both going to be fine. From tomorrow you will be sailing into calm waters.
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Hi Trish & Stuart,
Very best of luck for tomorrow. Hope everything goes well.
Steve x
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Hi wish,
I hope all goes well for you both tomorrow. No reason why it should not. And please understand and accept that those of us who have been there, got the T Shirt etc are all living and moving forward with a new life, and making the best of what we have, and with "LIFE" that's blvydy marvellous.
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All I can say is I really hope the tube strike doesn't cause you too many problems x
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Good luck for the op. Hope all goes well.
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Hi Trish,
Really pleased for you both. Must be a relief that the main bit is done.
Send him my best wishes when you get chance.
Steve x
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xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Not sure about the consumee thing. Maybe a small anaesthetic hiccup or something . Get some sleep and he can whinge about his belly pain in the morning xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Been thinking about you. Glad it is all over.
best wishes
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Trish
that is good news, give Stuart lots of hugs from us all, he will remember them much better in the morning !!
I hope you have a really good night's sleep and a much less stressful day tomorrow
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That's right Trish , nice sleep for you , lie in , cooked breakfast maybe. Spot of hand-bag / shoe shopping on the way.
Poor old Stuart ๐๐
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Thats great news. Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
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Best wishes Stuart .. Nice and easy remember . Help with your slippers and paper , and don't forget to make regular painful grunting noises .
Speedy recovery and love to you both Chris and El
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morning trish
fingers crossed that the day improves
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Perhaps not the best way to start a new day for you both. I sincerely hope its a minor blip and Stuart feels better and more comfortable as today progresses. With all you have been through in the last few days you must also be drained and exhausted and the road to recovery will no doubt have hiccoughs but hopefully the worst is behind now and its onwards and upwards from now on.My thoughts are with you.
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I might have a sneaky hour or two this afternoon Johsan๐
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Gosh poor you two . Remember Steve and I just had this done too Trish , and the trauma I had Friday night . It will be bad for a while , but generally I think 2 weeks is painful.. Im off out to walk the dogs , lovely day . Im happy now what I had done . I don't know if ive beaten it at all , but I feel safe as a family and as couple we ok . I know we will be all right - just got to keep bipolar away
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Hi Trish,
My catheter is attached to my right leg and I sleep on the left side of the bed if I was laying on it on my back looking forwards.
Being very careful with the catheter and making sure it's not pulling and the tummy trauma area see in Stuart can sleep or at least position himself on his side when the kidney / back pain kicks in. I've been doing this and it helps no end, once in position it's comfortable, gives the back an instants rest. Even if it's for 30 mins at a time. It feels so much better.
It can be a little awkward getting into the position but slowly and carefully will do the trick.
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Glad Stuart has managed some sleep Trish.
Did you? Hope so anyway
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Sleep is a great healer sometimes. Wish him well for a better day today.
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Ah well, what's a little dribble between friends.
As long as Stuart is comfortable and not in pain, the dribblyness (is that a word) will sort itself out.
It's very early days yet.
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Once a week has past, you'll get a good idea of where you are. I still have to use a pad a day, (It could last 3!!!!). It's so frustrating that after big improvements over the first 8 months, since Christmas, there seems to have been little change.
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Hi Mo,
Thanks, today has still been quite good with just the odd dribble. Last night he got up twice to go to the loo, today still suffering a little with the gas around his chest but we were re-assured by the urology nurse yesterday that that is to be expected. We know that he must still take it easy for a while, it was nice yesterday as we went out for a nice lunch in London after the Hospital it made Stuart feel a bit more human!
Trish xxx
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Glad Stuart has made good progress.
If some of the nerves have been spared there will be improvement there at some stage so fingers crossed for both of you.
Best Wishes
Sandra
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HURRAHHH you're back . Great news all round for Stuart . My review is 12th which is 8 weeks . My PSA test is tomorrow ( 6weeks ) and my doctor has promised to reveal all -Oooooooo . Excited ( not ) ! Im so glad you've come back to the fold as all the shared info is great .
" Wishes " -- My operation was laproscopic too through 5 keyholes , but mine was done by hand rather than via the Da Vinci robot , so you can have that option aswell .
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Trish,
Problem is you only get half the story if you get the info in bits and pieces?
Although it was an uncomfortable 8 weeks wait for me, my preference was to wait until all the 'scores on the doors' were back.
I'm pleased I did, as I had a full explanation of the results from the 'main man' and he was able to answer any questions that I had based on all the info available to him....
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T & S
Well done on your recovery, I thought I had done well back to work in 4 weeks so 3 weeks is brilliant although some will say way to soon.
I got my histology over the phone from my surgeon after three weeks, even though it was not quite the news I wanted it was what it was and I think until you get a post op PSA result a few weeks later a decision on possible further treatment may not be possible.
Thanks Chris
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Fingers crossed for you Stuart.
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Good luck Stuart and Trish.
Everything's crossed, fingers, arms, legs,eyes !!
Hope the news is good for you
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I can't wait for some great news Trish. Everything crossed from El and I . Stu"s recovery sounds exactly the same as mine physically and I'm moving on ED wise. Xx
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Good luck for histology tomorrow
I will be thinking of you
Xx
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All best wishes to Stuart, and you, for tomorrow.
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Good luck Steve thinking of you tomorrow!
Stuart had good news PSA was 0.04 doc feels all going well with continence but still have a way to go with ED and we have some work to do with that. Next PSA in 3 months and in the meantime it's pump use every day.
Trish x
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F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S
Im soooo pleased for you both . What an enormous weight off both your minds. Been there , have the T-shirt.
So nice you can now just drop it for a while and concentrate on other things.
Did I just hear a cork pop ????? Im on my way
Really happy now xx
Chris and El xx
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That's excellent news Trish, as Chris said I hope you'll both be downing a few beverages tonight to celebrate.
On the ED front I'm exactly the same not much happening down there.
I'm going to get tomorrow out the way and if it's good news I'm going to start the cialis daily again and just put up with the side effects. I got a new pump today just been having a mess and texting Chris at the same time lol, bloody uncomfortable being an uncut guy. But will keep at it... Lol
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Well done Stuart and Trish. Great News
Good luck for your turn tomorrow Raiden
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Great news for you both. Onwards and upwards from here!
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Fab news Trish, we'll have that gin to celebrate soon :-)
Maureen x
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Great news Trish, onwards and forwards x
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Trish
Brilliant news hooray!!
As for the exercises get in there and enjoy them, make them part of your journey together.
There are a few of you guys now going through the ED with pumps and meds. I hope you can all give each other advice, support and tips on what works best for you. I am sure others who have been through this will contribute too.
All the very best
Xx
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Gosh Trish missed this post with all the activity - as have others no doubt. Please offer Stu all the best. I was told I had El to help me through , and I'm hearing he has you just as much. Where would we be without you. Seriously. Honestly. Small steps forwards which is constant advice. I wouldn't want to be in his shoes again , but I'm recovering already and alive , and "monster" told me he loved me tonight for no reason ๐
Keep in touch
Chris and El
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all the best for Thursday Stuart will be thinking of you Andy
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Trish and Stuart
All the very best for Thursday.
Your post is lovely Trish you have captured the love you both share in such a meaningful way. I only saw it just now as despite the time you posted it new threads can take a while to appear. I think it is common for anyone facing such surgery to be very quiet about it all until it is really about to happen it is a kind of coping mechanism I guess.
At least now with your help and that of his medical team Stuart is ready.
It seens amazing how often someone living so close has PCa but I guess with the stats so high we should not be so surprised, at least you know you have someone very close at hand who will understand as well as all us lot of course!
Will be thinking of you both so be sure to let us know how Stuart is recovering and how you are doing too.
Best wishes
Xx
Mo
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Chris little monsters are great aren't they, I have two both well over 6ft!!
Andy and Mo thanks for your good wishes too. I had such a good sleep last night first in ages, now for the mission to get to get hospital by 7 am Thursday morning in central London as there is a tube strike planned! !!
Trish x
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So good you have been able to talk together. I hope the surgery goes well, keep us posted !
Regards, Fiona.
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Very best of luck to you both. I shall be thinking of you x
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Hope all goes well on Thursday and you don't have any travel problems
Arthur
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MASSIVE best wishes tomorrow Stuart and Trish and hope the journey ok !! You may be in bed already ;-)
I asked El if we could do something dirty on our final night , and she smiled lovingly and got the gardening gloves out .........
Very poor joke I know . Let us all know everything went well x
Chris and El x
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Thanks Chris and El made us laugh out loud will be turning in shortly๐๐ nerves will take hold in the morning I guess....
Trish and Stuart xx
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Hope all goes well tomorrow for Stuart Trish - challenges ahead but I was relieved to be getting rid of the pesky cancer and I am sure you guys will be to.
dl
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Loads of love and good wishes but you are both going to be fine. From tomorrow you will be sailing into calm waters.
BFN
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Hi Trish & Stuart,
Very best of luck for tomorrow. Hope everything goes well.
Steve x
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Thanks peeps, he's now snoring away beside me and me I will be lucky to get a few hours sleep! I will be asleep in the hospital chair in the morning when he goes down.
Will give update on how it all went.
Trish x
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Hi wish,
I hope all goes well for you both tomorrow. No reason why it should not. And please understand and accept that those of us who have been there, got the T Shirt etc are all living and moving forward with a new life, and making the best of what we have, and with "LIFE" that's blvydy marvellous.
dave
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All I can say is I really hope the tube strike doesn't cause you too many problems x
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Good luck for the op. Hope all goes well.
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Fingers crossed for you both today that all goes well and Stuart is home safe and sound very soon.
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Hi Trish,
Hope everything goes as smoothly as possible today
My best wishes
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