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Convinced I’m in serious trouble.

User
Posted 18 Feb 2021 at 21:15

Hi all, been reading various threads and this seems a really helpful community. Looking for some reassurance.

Last few months ejaculate has decreased to barely nothing and general ache and pain in prostate region led me to doctor. No major issues with peeing, stream not the racehorse I used to be but certainly not a trickle. No getting up in the night, no burning. Following GP exam 28th Jan (slightly abnormal, central depression not really there) put on Cipro to manage any possible infection and had MRI on 8th Feb. Results back over the phone on Tuesday 16th - ‘5-suspicious’. Then spoke to GP for blood results, PSA5.66-slightly elevated, but everything else ‘normal’ - calcium, liver, white cells a little low (but were two years ago), platelets ok, not diabetic, etc etc. Dr said PSA0-2.75 ‘healthy’ for my age. Have no prior measurement. Doc said he would expect any spreading cancer to show up somewhere in some of those measures.
Booked in for biopsy 9th March. Scheduled a phonecall with Consultant (Doctors name removed by moderator) tomorrow. Seems to know his stuff and has a special focus area on diagnosis of PCa.

Have learned more in the last two days than I ever wanted to. Have lost appetite, not sleeping well, feel constantly sick, have convinced myself that every pain or niggle between ribs and knees is linked to it. From various literature that correlates Pirads 5 to Gleason etc that this is mega-serious and I need to be getting affairs in order.

Have had lower back pain for years and constant groin/testicular stretches etc that I have always discounted to over-exertion, exercise etc. Now worried that these were all signals.

Anything else I could/should be doing? Anyone throw any experience on these kind of measures?

Edited by moderator 18 Feb 2021 at 22:21  | Reason: Doctors name mentioned

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Posted 18 Feb 2021 at 23:05

Chill out, man.

I think we have had three people quite recently with pirads-5 who have just been given the all clear.

It sounds like you have some prostate problem it may be an infection. It may even be cancer, but even if it is cancer it is probably a lot more manageable than you think.

A psa of 5.6 is elevated but if your cancer had spread psa would be much higher, and dre would have been much more conclusive.

Feeling sick, not sleeping, not eating, that is all anxiety not cancer. General aches and pains are probably just that. PCa has to be quite advanced before you get any noticeable symptoms, other than peeing problems which are usually the first sign. 

So wait for the biopsy results, until you get them you can't do anything, and there is no point in worrying. When you get the results you might have cancer but you might not, if you have it has every chance of being curable. 

As for getting your affairs in order, fine everyone should make a will, but I don't think anyone will be benefitting from it soon. 

Dave

User
Posted 19 Feb 2021 at 07:27
Don't start planning your funeral just yet 😁. Even if you do have prostate cancer, and yes, you may well have, with a PSA of less than 6 the odds massively favour it being localised cancer which is an eminently treatable condition. Just wait for the diagnostic process to run its course and then you'll know. There's no point in getting stressed about it. Just wait and see.

Best wishes,

Chris

User
Posted 19 Feb 2021 at 08:27

As the other guys have said RELAX..... do not guess what the end will be justly live each day as it comes.   Your PSA is not that bad and the aches and pains could just be you stressing.   I’m the opposite.... I have every professional asking if I have paints and aches and am I ok..... I feel great...... I just have PCa.

What will be will be ..... getting all excited about it achieves nothing and be assured there is a lot that can be done.

Keep us posted :-)

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User
Posted 18 Feb 2021 at 23:05

Chill out, man.

I think we have had three people quite recently with pirads-5 who have just been given the all clear.

It sounds like you have some prostate problem it may be an infection. It may even be cancer, but even if it is cancer it is probably a lot more manageable than you think.

A psa of 5.6 is elevated but if your cancer had spread psa would be much higher, and dre would have been much more conclusive.

Feeling sick, not sleeping, not eating, that is all anxiety not cancer. General aches and pains are probably just that. PCa has to be quite advanced before you get any noticeable symptoms, other than peeing problems which are usually the first sign. 

So wait for the biopsy results, until you get them you can't do anything, and there is no point in worrying. When you get the results you might have cancer but you might not, if you have it has every chance of being curable. 

As for getting your affairs in order, fine everyone should make a will, but I don't think anyone will be benefitting from it soon. 

Dave

User
Posted 19 Feb 2021 at 07:27
Don't start planning your funeral just yet 😁. Even if you do have prostate cancer, and yes, you may well have, with a PSA of less than 6 the odds massively favour it being localised cancer which is an eminently treatable condition. Just wait for the diagnostic process to run its course and then you'll know. There's no point in getting stressed about it. Just wait and see.

Best wishes,

Chris

User
Posted 19 Feb 2021 at 08:00

Thanks, Dave. 

User
Posted 19 Feb 2021 at 08:01

Thanks for the feedback. Helpful :-)

User
Posted 19 Feb 2021 at 08:27

As the other guys have said RELAX..... do not guess what the end will be justly live each day as it comes.   Your PSA is not that bad and the aches and pains could just be you stressing.   I’m the opposite.... I have every professional asking if I have paints and aches and am I ok..... I feel great...... I just have PCa.

What will be will be ..... getting all excited about it achieves nothing and be assured there is a lot that can be done.

Keep us posted :-)

 
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