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Posted 25 Nov 2020 at 07:39

I'd like to share a resource my wife and I have found very helpful, very couple-friendly and yet cast in terms that are accessible to men: https://www.atouchysubject.com/ 

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Posted 25 Nov 2020 at 19:57

Yes an open marriage is an oxymoron for me too. I often think about how nice it would be to encounter what I used to encounter in the mornings 😁😁 but unless its attached to my husband it's no use!!

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Posted 25 Nov 2020 at 21:01
That’s what I have missed most over these years as well, the lazy waking up sex.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 25 Nov 2020 at 23:18

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I often think about how nice it would be to encounter what I used to encounter in the mornings 😁😁 but unless its attached to my husband it's no use!!

Well said  πŸ˜„ !  I certainly get it.  I just don't want to be one who constrains my wife in any way by my situation.  I believe she see thinks exactly the way you do, but we all evolve.

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Posted 29 Nov 2020 at 13:55

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That’s what I have missed most over these years as well, the lazy waking up sex.

Have you tried just going ahead with lazy waking up sex, just without the erection part of it? My wife and I both in our sixties, find the mornings are best. And learning a lot about loving sexual touch without requiring that particular part of me to be fully hard.

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Posted 29 Nov 2020 at 16:05
I think you would need to read my threads to understand it fully but 10 years post-op, J has never made any attempt in the morning that is unlikely to change; although he no longer has PCa-treatment related ED and he does wake up with an erection sometimes, the mind tricks are too great to overcome.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

 
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