Thank you all fir your kind words. A Macmillan nurse came today and already we have a cosy hospital bed downstairs in our back room and various aids. A wheelchair will be here by end week.
We cry often but we are enjoying each others company still. Medicines were sorted out too and a dear neighbour fetched the prescription. We are blessed with a wonderful son and daughter who are supporting us well while dealing with their own feelings too.
Your posts are inspirational and despite the most difficult times you are facing your love and kindness shine through. So sorry to read this latest news, I wish you both the very best and you continue to keep sharing love and laughter xx
Sending a big hug
Clare
Sending you both big hugs and lots of love Gilly. 😘 xx
After an emotional meeting with our lovely oncologist it was first decided to have one shot of radiotherapy but that has now been stopped as his bad leg us almost as strong as the other. As his psa is now 3000 there is no way he can recover and too weak for further treatment but our children are really supportive and helpful and help us to get through the tough times. We don't want to be apart and each day we are just thankful for that precious time.
Each day it gets a little harder. Twenty minutes of talking is enough and he sleeps instantly when tired. My feelings are that we will not have as long as we hoped.
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Gillyflower
Love and hugs.
Chris
Such a sad time for you all Gilly, my heart goes out to you and I hope you have much more precious time together.
With lots of love to you all.
Ange xx
Gillyflower I am so sorry to hear this. I hope his sleep is peaceful and you get some rest too. Each twenty minutes to be treasured . Big hugs to you all. Xx
Hi Gilly,
Big hug.
Gordon
So sorry to hear about your situation now and hope you continue to be comforted by your lovely family. Best wishes to you all.
Ann x
So sorry to hear this news Gilly. Thinking of you at this difficult time. It is good you have close family to be with you.
Phil
I’m so sorry to hear this Gilly X
Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kind Regards
In my prayers 😘
Tough day today. A visit from our vicar and facing up to things that were hard to think about leaving us a bit down tho peaceful too. G is very poorly today and I fear we have weeks not months. Each day a little weaker and less able to do things. Bazza was so brave and voiced his tribulations so well and I think of him with admiration.Today we are thankful for a four pronged stick and a raised toilet frame. It's the little things that matter.
I am so sad when I read what you are both going through but grateful that you are sharing reality at this time so others like me can be aware of what may be to come. I hope there are some good bits today for you.
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