Ian,
You will be aware that the NHS is struggling due to shortage of clinicians. This means that they do not have the time to discuss in detail with each man after he has an MRI why they feel it shows possible cancer and the need for a biopsy to try to confirm this. So you then progress to biopsy with a bone scan also done where considered appropriate. Where cancer has not been found in a biopsy where strongly suspected, on occasion men are asked to have another biopsy, perhaps a Template one, When the MRI, and bone scan (where done) along with biopsy and histology are all available, the case of an individual is considered with others at a Multi Disciplinary Meeting. The patient is given his diagnosis and where cancer has been found told his options to dealt with it. The type, extent and positioning of cancer will be some of the factors for these choices. In some circumstances a recommendation may be made for a particular form of treatment but this is often left to the patient to decide as there are pros and cons for each type of treatment including after effects. These are all detailed in the excellent 'Tool Kit' on this site. At this point and where there is doubt or you just wish to obtain another opinion before adopting a particular form of treatment (which includes doing nothing but just being monitored until treatment is advisable, ie Active Surveillance), you can do so. But I don't see any advantage of getting a second opinion until this point. It should be noted that sometimes a biopsy is done prior to an MRI, This is gradually changing as the reasons for doing the MRI before biopsy outweigh doing it the other way round.
To put it frankly, hospital Consultant's time is at a premium so they may not give detailed explanations and reasoning before and between each scan/test, of which the technicalities would be lost on most patients anyway.
Another thing to bear in mind is that often the administration is poor in many hospitals but the quality of treatment overall is very good. Also, don't assume that because your clinician is someone of few words that he/she is not highly competent. Ultimately, early diagnosis and appropriate treatment affords a better chance of beating PCa or at least significantly slowing it's advance.
Well Ian, you are aware how the system works and that you are not being treated differently to others, so it's really down to you to consider whether indeed this is really your objection or if you won't have treatment regardless. It could be like a situation I have with my wife now. She says she won't fly any more because of all the waiting at airports but when pressed agrees it's really more because she is afraid of flying now having previously enjoyed this for many years.
I wish you well.
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Tomorrow is my biopsy appointment. It would appear that’d it’s a Professor at the hospital that is doing the biopsy. Is this normal that a Professor is going the biopsy as I thought it was the specialist nurse that would do the procedure ?
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Nurses wouldn't usually be allowed to undertake surgical procedures. For many men, the biopsy is the only time they ever meet their urologist!
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I thought you weren’t having a biopsy, Ian?
As I mentioned in an earlier post, biopsies are carried out by urological surgeons. I’ve never heard of a nurse performing a biopsy.
The forum rules prohibit naming medical staff, by the way. It would be advisable to edit your post and remove the name.
Best wishes,
Chris
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Good luck Ian. It'll be a little uncomfortable and inconvenient, but that's all. If you're lucky they won't find anything.
Mine was TRUS, I had to lie on my side whilst the doc shoved every bit of hospital equipment he could find up my arse, meanwhile a nurse sat on the other side i.e. facing me making small talk, about what I had for breakfast, to try and distract me from what the doc was doing. Poor little me with my aspergers; I hate small talk, I just wanted to count how many small yellow tiles were on the wall behind her.
Keep us updated.
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Wishing you all the best for tomorrow Ian.
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Thanks for the replies folks. The specialist nurse told me quite specifically that she carried out standard biopsy’s but because mine was in a difficult place , her words the surgeon , professor would be doing the procedure. Again I’ve been misled by a medical team. I’m attending the appointment but I need a lot to of answers before I’m letting them near me. At best they’ve still to reach a level of incompetence.
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Originally Posted by: Online Community MemberGood luck Ian. It'll be a little uncomfortable and inconvenient, but that's all. If you're lucky they won't find anything.
Mine was TRUS, I had to lie on my side whilst the doc shoved every bit of hospital equipment he could find up my arse, meanwhile a nurse sat on the other side i.e. facing me making small talk, about what I had for breakfast, to try and distract me from what the doc was doing. Poor little me with my aspergers; I hate small talk, I just wanted to count how many small yellow tiles were on the wall behind her.
Keep us updated.
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So it's a TRUS biopsy you are having as template is more involved and is a theater procedure. Specialist nurses are now being trained to do more things which provides more scope and responsibility for them and saves time of a surgeon. (Why a Professor in your case I can't say). A TRUS biopsy feels like being flicked with a rubber band as each core is taken, usually between 8 and 12 times. Quite frankly I would rather have this than a tooth pulled or filled. Shortly after the TRUS I drove home, no problem.
Good decision to go ahead having had the MRI I think.
Let us know how you get on.
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So I bit the bullet and despite my mind being in denial I had the biopsy done as planned. Was more surgical than I was expecting but otherwise quicker than expected. So it’s the waiting game now 2/3 weeks.
Yes I was irrational and yes I probably came across as offering no justification in this. Pain in the arse excuse the pun. I’m actually quite a sensible problem solving person but this whole thing floored me.
Thanks to all who offered up the posts in a very diplomatic manner.
The medical staff were excellent.
Onwards and upwards.
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Delighted to hear it, Ian. Good decision. It sounds too as if you've established a level of trust with the people who'll be treating you, and that's absolutely essential.
Very best wishes,
Chris
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Difficult decision to have made. So pleased to hear you went ahead and that the Medical Staff were excellent. My husband Keith can’t fault the NHS and all the Medical Team he has encountered during his journey so far. He keeps saying it is what it is and you have to make these difficult decisions and move forward.
We hope you receive good news in 2/3 weeks time.
As you say Ian, onwards and upwards.
Best wishes
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Just had a good sleep and just a little blood in the back passage. Woke up with a nice erection which was good but my penis seems a bit sore. Maybe my imagination. Scared to pee or masturbate in case I have some blood but I’m told this is natural.
Drinking more water and everything seems ok.
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Drink lots of water, you need flushing out. Expect red wine colour at times, fading to pink over the next week or two. Go easy on the masturbation, for a few days. Semen will be pink for a while.
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Well done Ian, glad you got there in the end.
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Originally Posted by: Online Community MemberDrink lots of water, you need flushing out. Expect red wine colour at times, fading to pink over the next week or two. Go easy on the masturbation, for a few days. Semen will be pink for a while.
More like vivid red than pink, at least in my case! It'll change to the colour of HP sauce as the blood cells die, but it'll probably take a couple of months to clear up, so don't worry about it - it's completely normal and expected.
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Good decision on the Biopsy Ian. I left any ejaculations for a good 10 days - 2 weeks. when it arrived it was definitely HP Sauce / Iron brown coloured. Wishing you all the best for the future.
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I would take a different view; the more you ejaculate the quicker it will return to normal. Dig deep and find that inner teenage boy that used to clear up on a discarded sock, into a pile of tissues or on your mum's best towel when she wasn't looking :-)
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Such a positive outlook :) Yeah it seems to be a more positive to keep all my bits and pieces active.
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