I was in nearly your position 18 months ago, except 1 year older and not having had any period of AS.
I considered my options, AS amongst them, and chose surgery for the following reasons.
- PCa is a metastatic disease. The longer you give it, the more chance it has to spread. Ok, 3+3 is not likely to spread quickly or even at all, but at this point the classification is made on the basis of a few biopsy cores and the “upgrade” rate from post-RP pathology is something like 40%. My final classification was 3+4.
- Best get it done sooner while it is still well inside the prostate maximising the chance of full nerve sparing.
- When done right by a high volume expert surgeon, you stand an excellent chance of coming through with full continence and minimal loss of erectile function, though it may take a little time to get back to normal.
- I had had years of prostate symptoms (not directly related to PCa) so getting rid of the (not so) little blighter had its attractions.
- Aforementioned large prostate made brachiotherapy impossible.
Thirteen months on I feel I made the correct decision, in spite of some unusual but fairly severe post complication. I’m currently “in full remission”, fully continent and erectile function within sight of the pre-op condition and still improving. I would also never have been comfortable with the idea that there was a known tumour inside me - to quote a surgeon acquaintance, “the only good carcinoma is the one in the bucket.......”
Best wishes for your decision making process
Nick