Hi Guys,
Dave that gave us a laugh ' l use it a lot, alone and in company' .
I think i have heard enough now to persuade me to give my 'Sonya' another go. Its difficult when your 26 year old is still in the house with his fiancee. I can imagine being stuck in the tube and i hear 'Dad' being called out with footsteps approaching the bedroom door.....Perhaps a DO NOT DISTURB sign on the bedroom door will work...
My son and his fiancee are moving into their house very soon so it will be better then.
As for 'Make it a part of your lovemaking' that isn't happening at the moment and my wife really doesn't want to see me use 'Sonya' so its definately not going to be part of our lovemaking.
I am lucky that i only have till October for my last injection and that the Viagra and Ciallis work well at the moment. At the Docs Friday to sort out the prescription for more and i will ask for daily Ciallis and event Viagra - see what she says.
From what i have read on here even if these meds are working its still important to use the pump ? I think my ED clinic should have been routinely booked but i had to ask my S/Nurse to do it for me. And my next appointment with her, my 2nd, is in July. First was in October, 2 months after the end of the RT. i did but my own SomoErect ( Sonya).
I think my wife may be like some others in that her whole thoughts are with curing the cancer, sex is of secondary importance. I get that , but i suppose she doesn't understand the importance to us and how we grieve when it may be lost. i am quite sad at the moment ( blame the HT ) but i have faith that all will return in due course.
Nobody said it would be easy....and i'm not complaining as iv'e been very lucky with side effects so far. Bar the mental s*** from the HT which i could well do without. 16 sessions with the counselor and going strong...
Thank you all so much for your help,
Phil