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User

Posted 25 Dec 2015 at 03:01

happy birthday and a very merry Christmas by the sound of it
will raise a glass to you all at dinner

regards
nidge

run long and prosper

'pooh how do you spell love'

'piglet you dont spell love -you just feel it'

User

Posted 25 Dec 2015 at 07:47

Birthday Boy !! Double whammy.
All the best Steve
Chris

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade

User

Posted 29 Jan 2016 at 22:53

Hi,

Just to let the person know who was trying to contact me, my mailbox is now cleared.

Steve

User

Posted 30 Jan 2016 at 13:46

Hi Steve
Was'nt me but how are you doing anyhow, haven't heard from you for a while

Paul

User

Posted 30 Jan 2016 at 17:15

Badly, no place to turn. Not sure what to do.

User

Posted 30 Jan 2016 at 18:12

What's up?

User

Posted 30 Jan 2016 at 19:28

Hi Steve,
A problem halved is a problem shared, my whole life has always been wrong way round
Best Barry

Edited by member 30 Jan 2016 at 19:29 | Reason: Not specified

User

Posted 30 Jan 2016 at 20:58

Hi Steve

Youve changed your photo.

How are you getting on?

Let us know what's on your mind, someone may be able to help.

Alison

User

Posted 30 Jan 2016 at 22:50

Come on Steve - you've supported loads of people on this site including me - let us help and support you now

Arthur

User

Posted 31 Jan 2016 at 15:05

Thanks for your messages, they do help.

User

Posted 31 Jan 2016 at 15:27

I will try to explain when I can but I feel humiliated but desperately lonely. Frightened about what to say because I've mistakes in the past.

User

Posted 31 Jan 2016 at 16:40

Oh Steve. I did message you yesterday so I hope you got it. It didn't say your box was full but I bet it will be today!!

Please don't be frightened what to post. If this situation is as bad for you as it has been in the past then no wonder you feel there is nowhere to turn, especially as you seem to be discounting us.
Whatever happened in the past with your posts is now water under the bridge and you know where it was misunderstood.

What is important now is that you ask us for help. Even if it isn't physical you know how good we are (usually!!) with the old shoulder to lean on.

There are many on here that have benefited from your posts and by reading your history.

There must also be folk on here that you trust if you private message them and although I am trustworthy!! I am a woman so perhaps you would feel better talking to a man.

Please try it. I would hate for you to get into the state you were in last time. Please my friend - approach one of us.
You must know that talking helps a bit to put things in perspective

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

User

Posted 31 Jan 2016 at 16:51

Hi Steve,

No one has made more mistakes than me, and perhaps I am making another in trying to cheer you up?

My favourite quotations include:

Those who don't make mistakes don't make anything!

Rules are for the guidance of wise men and the blind obedience of fools!

God only made one perfect man, and we crucified him!

So whatever you have done, whoever you have upset, dust yourself down, learn from your mistakes, and move on.

Dave

User

Posted 31 Jan 2016 at 18:38

Steve,

you are not alone in saying something then regretting it or wishing you hadnt said it ! Have just come back from a competitive obedience dog match with my club. I hate the matches as mainly they do nothing to promote it as a sport where dogs and handlers are enjoying themselves. Found myself saying as much and worse to the league captain of the opposition ! It may be true but probably tactless of me to pipe up !! Oh well, would drive ourselves crazy comtemplating the things we should never have done or said. Whatever was done is past so post whatever you feel anyway ! Don't inadvertently isolate yourself !

Fiona. x

User

Posted 31 Jan 2016 at 22:31

I know in an earlier post I suggested that Steve should open up to us as we could help and support him. I've been thinking about this and for me I'm going to let him come back to us when he's good and ready and in a better position to do so

Arthur

User

Posted 01 Feb 2016 at 09:24

I don't know if anyone else has but I'm sure Steve would appreciate support so maybe a private message just to let him know he is in our thoughts. ?

As you say Arthur, he will come to us in his own good time but he is already feeling lonely he says so a bit of online support might help maybe. We don't need to pester him, just confirm we are aware of how he feels

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

User

Posted 01 Feb 2016 at 11:09

This would really help him Johsan.

Alison

User

Posted 03 Feb 2016 at 09:45

Hi,

Thanks to all those who sent me PMs.

Seems I might have another problem. Can't seem to be able to pee and when I do, I pee blood. Never happened before and I'm a bit concerned.

My GP is seeing me at 4.50 this afternoon.

Steve

User

Posted 03 Feb 2016 at 09:59

Good luck his afternoon Steve. Please let us know how you get on. As always, thinking of you

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

User

Posted 03 Feb 2016 at 11:33

Hi Steve

You're doing the right thing visiting the GP quickly. Hope all goes well this afternoon and it's just a blip

Arthur

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