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Erecting the Erection - Medication

User
Posted 05 Jul 2016 at 16:39
CJ

I have a prescription for daily 100mg sildeafil, that does give semi tumescence most of the time, helps with the incontinence but did make me itch all over,even cutting the pills in half was still effective but still was itching, left them off for now whilst taking other medication for the osteoarthritis. Next time at GP may ask for 25 mg.

Thanks Chris

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User
Posted 10 Jul 2016 at 21:26
Cialis has been very very effective for me

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User
Posted 10 Jul 2016 at 21:28
Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hi guys / gals
Update if anyone interested. ED nurse phone appt today. I complained no natural recovery at 13 months post op. Discussed my daily pump usage ( once per day for 10 mins ) , and that sadly in the last 2 months I have rapidly lost length and girth. He was surprised at that , but nonetheless suggested I use the pump LESS regularly as if it was going to work it would have by now.
Discussed Viridal injection and why I needed a full 40 mg to get an 80% erection. He couldn't answer that and stated each man was different. I explained I was slowly but surely avoiding injection and penetrative sex because of the terrible pain I experienced for hours after.
He told me there is a BRAND NEW injection ( he couldn't remember the name ) which we will try 1st August at appt if my Uro happy to prescribe / fund it. Apparently far less pain. Also said we could try Muse in the future to prevent needle marking and bruising I am experiencing.
He asked how I was getting on with my daily Cialis 5mg which I'm self funding. I told him initially it was brilliant but not quite enough for full sex. He expressed that I should definitely continue this and less use of the pump and as much nookie as possible. This was strange coming from an area that refuses to fund daily Cialis on the grounds of insufficient evidence that it is beneficial. All in all a good review , and at least I got to vent some angst , which as you fellow sufferers will know can really bl***dy get you down after a while.
Onwards and upwards. Never give up !
Chris

Hi there Chris,

I'm wondering if your loss of size might be due to the pump giving a false impression?

I've been lucky in that 18 months on I can get erections naturally but still use Cialis anyway as I get it prescribed and it improves things. Sex is like it used to be

Earlier in my recovery if I used the pump I could pump my penis up pretty impressively, but now I can get full erections with 5mg of Cialis that is maybe 0.5 inch less but rigid and solid, but not as large as with the pump

I think that's it's a lottery in nerve sparing surgery because in each man the nerves can be in different places so some might be spared "better"

There are new techniques in detecting exact nerve locations but that's all bye the bye for us now

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User
Posted 05 Aug 2016 at 13:22

I am 60 years and almost 18 months post op.  Prior to the op had an active and satisfying sexual relationship with my wife who has continued to be supportive and active in my recovery throughout. We laugh a lot.

I have a question or two about ED but first need to give the background, so bear with me.

I have been using a pump regularly along with Viagra during this last year or so, as rehab therapy.  Initially found the pump not very good for gaining a full erection as my old man tended to pivot at the base.  When used with Viagra that helped.  I found the side effects of Viagra were not nice mainly aching neck, blocked sinuses and headaches, but I persisted with it. I also found that I could get an erection enough for masturbation with Viagra but not sufficient for penetration I had to use the pump and rings for that.   That worked reasonably well, but immediately after orgasm I had to get that damn ring off as it was so uncomfortable.  I tried the SureRelease rings which were much better as they could be ripped off after orgasm and the discomfort went away immediately.  By attaching a piece of string to the finger holes at the side of each ring my wife could easily pull the strings after orgasm and the ring ripped away easily.  But of course there were only two  of these rings provided with the kit and these specific rings are not provided on prescription.  No problem, we can buy them privately.

Throughout this time the Uro nurse used the standard response "Well its early days".  In fact I heard that expression so many times it became a joke between my wife and me.

 

Anyway after about 13 months  I was referred to the ED clinic (can you believe I had never had an appointment with them up till then). The consultant said that the Viagra and pump had probably achieved all they are going to achieve in terms of rehab and recommended Caverject.  An appointment was made with the ED nurse in another three months.   I have to say I was pretty annoyed at this point as having been told that it was "early days" for the last 13 months, now suddenly it wasn't early days anymore!!http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-yell.gif

 

So we had the appointment and have used Caverject 6 times now with the following results.

1. Afternoon. 10ug. Erection 2 hours.  Painful ache.

2. Afternoon. 7.5ug. Erection 3.5 hours. Painful ache and panic setting in.

3. Morning. 2.5ug.  Erection inadequate for satisfaction.  Went away within 1 hour.

4. Morning. 5ug. Erection 95% adequate, not satisfying enough for my wife. lasted 1.5 hours

5. Morning 7.5ug Erection 1.5 hours.  Good erection and satisfying

6. Afternoon 7.5ug Erection 2.5 hours Good erection and painful ache

 

My ED nurse said that they are trying to get approval for a new injection which results in less pain apparently. Waiting for that!

 

So my first question - has anyone else found that the length of erection time apart from  being dependant on the dose also appears to be dependant on time of day?  I wonder if it is down to the metabolism at different times of the day.

 

Second, does anyone know the name of this new injection and what the progress is within NICE for approval?

 

My main question -  Having gone through the year or so of "early days" and now being told that the pump therapy and Viagra has "probably done all its going to do" so I am now on injections, are there any of you out there who have still regained almost total erection capability beyond 18 months post op.  In other words is there still hope that I may get full recovery and is there anything I can or should do to help things along?

 

Thanks in advance for your input.

User
Posted 05 Aug 2016 at 14:59

Hello
I am 14 months post op , 49 yrs old and supposedly had double nerve spare. I desperately didn't want impotence but at this time have not had a single natural event yet. I've used the pump every day from 8 weeks post op without fail. At first I had normal sized erections but floppy at the base. But it did the job. My penis has now slowly died and is smaller all over. I've tried all the pills and am currently self supplying Cialis 5mg which gives the best results for natural sex. I've done the whole injection route , both Caverject and Viridal. I need a full 40mg dose but have never been fully erect , let alone priapism. I guess I was butchered during the op. Still have severe bladder and bowel pains now. I couldn't stand the after pain of the injection so have almost given up on them. I was due to try this new injection last week but they cancelled my appt. I think it's called Trimix and is used in the states. Doesn't give better erection but less pain. I was told to ease off on pump use as " it would have worked by now ". I will keep going as my penis is atrophying.
By far the best thing for me is the Cialis. If I take it early say 6 in the morning , we can have proper sex at 7 , with the help also of a slacker cock ring. Not like the pump ones. It just helps. I have very very jelly like pump rings. If you are very trimmed below and use lube , you can easily slip a finger under the ring post sex and ease it off. They are available on prescription and I have the codes. They fit any pump.
Thanks for a great post. Feel free to contact me.
Chris

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade

User
Posted 05 Aug 2016 at 21:24

D

We use muse not caverject and find that duration is more about state of mind,mood,concentration stimulation and position. I am 26 months post op and despite being told my nerves were not spared with plenty of stimulation and no medication I can get 90 per cent swelling/tumescence but I cannot get  a full erection. You might want to look at some of my posts on page 4 of this conversation, you do not need an erection for vaginal intercourse. You may both need to adjust your techniques and adapt to the new norm. 

Using lube to get the rings on may also make it easier to get them off, I did often get a black and blue penis from removing a tight ring, try using two slightly larger rings.I have an ongoing stricture and have not used the pump that often but on the occasions that I do I can get a full size penis but again no strength but still very usable.

http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t9839-One-wife-s-story-of-ED

Have a read of the above link and you will see you do not need to give up hope, recovery can take longer than the two years that is frequently quotes .

Thanks Chris

User
Posted 15 Aug 2016 at 16:48

Yes, John returned to full erectile function between year 3 and year 4 after RP although the experts say that whatever you have at 2 years post-op tends to be all you can expect. He still uses Viagra or Levitra though as although physically he no longer has ED, the mind games still cause problems.

The safest and easiest way to remove a ring after use is to pull the sides apart (using the finger rings) and hold - the blood seeps back into your body making the penis small again. The ring should then slip off easily. As already said, plenty of lube also helps.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 17 Aug 2016 at 15:57

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

I had an interesting second meeting with an ED Consultant recently, the following points were made by him.

Cialis 5mg per day should be enough to give an erection. Supplementing 5mg daily with a booster of either 10mg or 20mg for an event makes little or no difference, (having tried it, I agree).

He stated "the best recovery is made 6 - 12 months post op", so at or around 12 months (in my case) he said "it is as good as it's going to get"! (based on anecdotal evidence from this forum and generally perceived wisdom on this site I'm a bit disappointed).

"If you take Cialis to achieve erections you'll need to be on it for life, and once you stop taking Cialis you'll revert almost immediately to how you were post - op" (scary).

At the moment I'm lucky, in that I am able (but not on demand) to achieve usable erections, usually when I wake up in the mornings rather than when I'm engaged in sexual activity, which I why I'm at the ED Clinic.

Additionally, I'm also lucky that my doctor's practice has given me prescriptions for / funded Cialis, although I do have concerns that this may not continue for the rest of my life!

I'm 51 weeks post op and not sure whether it was a good, bad or indifferent meeting.

 

 

Hey Pablito,

what do you mean with "ED Consultant"? Are you speaking to a doctor or just a "friend" who is giving you some advice on how to tackle your problems in the right way.

1.) Saying that the best recovery is made 6-12 months post OP is not particularly wrong but also not applies to every person that had to go through a surgery. I've read a lot about patients that made continuous improvements during longer periods of time.

Following two statements are interesting:

"The NYU Langone Medical Center has claimed that it can take most men up to a year after prostate surgery before they can experience an erection. The NYU Langone Medical Center has claimed that it can take most men up to a year after prostate surgery before they can experience an erection. The timetable for this normally states that sexual function will be restored between three and twelve months after prostate surgery. In rare cases some men may see no improvement up to two years after surgery. However, this doesn't mean restoration isn't possible."

"Most men will continue to see erectile-potency improvements up to two years after surgery, so we would expect to see even better outcomes by then"

Both statements to be found here alongside more information on if and how to restore sexual functionality after a surgery. I think it is a bit discouraging if your consultant gives you the impression that you won't be able to restore your sexual life if you haven't been able to in the first 12 months. It's simply not true in every case.

2.) Treatments like Viagra, Cialis etc., so called PDE-5-Inhibitors cause a chemical reaction in your body that increases the blood flow into your penis so you can get a better erection once your sexually aroused. This chemical reaction starts at some point after you take the medication (for Viagra it is 30-60 mins, for Cialis its less ... should work within the first 30 minutes) and stops after some time as well (for Viagra after 4 hours, for Cialis up to 36 hours which is a big advantage of that medication). So you definitely don't have to take that medication for the rest of your life if at some stage you will be able to get an erection without any aids again. If your consultant spoke about Cialis for daily intake he was right to a certain degree. You take it daily and therefore will lose the effect after not taking it anymore. Still, if you recover to being able to get a natural erection you don't need to take the medication any more for sure. You can read it up i.e. here to get a better understanding.

So for now I would take the medication as you were lucky enough to get a prescription which helps you afford it but also don't give up on other options. Also look closely on what happens at stages where you don't take that medication (if you don't take the daily dosage which I personally wouldn't recommend anyways) to see if you are back to "normal". Remember that it's not always just physical trigger but also psychological ones. So maybe taking the medication and any aid that will help you to get comfortable with yourself again solves the problem after some time.


Wish you all the best and don't always believe everything without questioning. For sure these guys are experts but still ...

Dan

User
Posted 17 Aug 2016 at 18:35

I think given the fact that Pablito has reported on his appointment with the ED consultant, it is safe to assume that the consultant has the relevant qualifications. I disagree with some of your comments, including that Viagra works within an hour - but I guess you are not speaking as someone who uses Viagra, cialis or the other chemical options yourself? It might work in an hour for some people but in my house, it takes 2 - 4 hours to take effect depending on how long it is since he last ate. Cialis takes 8 - 10 hours. Levitra takes about half an hour. 

I note that you haven't given very much detail on your profile Dan - what's your link with PCa? Or is it just that you work for the company you have linked in your post? 

 

Pablito, your ED specialist has the personality of the Grim Reaper - remind yourself of the experiences that John, Ray and others have had and stay optimistic :-)

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"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 18 Aug 2016 at 07:45

Hey LynEyre,

what exactly are you disagreeing with apart the timeframe the medication starts to work? For sure the 1 hour window is solely reflecting the facts given on nearly every resource you can find online. I know it also highly depends on each and every individual and also on the circumstances under which you take the medication. So i.e. food intake can have an influence amongst a lot of other things.

You are right in assuming that I don't take any of the mentioned medications at the moment but I had to at some stage of my life. For me Viagra in particular kicked in much quicker than the numbers you are mentioning.

I solely stumbled upon this post whilst doing my research and wanted to encourage Pablito as his post was indeed a bit desperate. I have no direct link to prostate cancer but as I already said had touching points in my life with ED. I also understand that with your family being directly affected you act much more sensitive to that topic. I didn't want to offend you or anybody in any case by commenting without having a direct link to prostate cancer.

Dan

 

User
Posted 18 Aug 2016 at 10:05

Lyn & Dan,

Thank you for your recent posts. I'm a bit tied up work-wise at the moment, but will respond shortly!

Pablito

User
Posted 18 Aug 2016 at 11:03

Thanks for your post Pablito. As you may know I am at 15 months nearly with zero natural return , but have had success now with Cialis daily. The injections cause terrible pain.
I just try to believe Lyn and not give up. I still use pump daily to try and keep him fit. Sadly I've lost a significant amount of size despite this. Have days when it just gets me so down , then I pick up again. And I'm by no means cured either which makes things worse. Keep on trying

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade

User
Posted 01 Sep 2016 at 10:22

Hi guys and gals
You know I'm not shy , so I just wanted to share this. Since being on Cialis 5mg daily I have been having variable results but just wanted to say that by using these rings it can make the difference between a good usable erection , or something not quite upto the job. So don't be shy. Buy some now and stick them in your bedside cabinet. Best wishes
Chris

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34881

If life gives you lemons , then make lemonade

User
Posted 01 Sep 2016 at 13:53

Shy? NOPE

Informative? YEP

I'm sure somebody will benefit Chris so thanks for posting

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
User
Posted 02 Sep 2016 at 11:20
Chris

I don't think of you as shy at all. You are generally very forthright in your posts. If you have found things that help you to get a useable erection then you do the right thing to spread the word.

I am really pleased that you are finding the 5mg daily Cialis seems to be working. It was a bit of a battle for you to get that and without this forum you may never have fought for it.

Great to see this forum and the people who use it and contribute is still doing so much to help.

Best wishes

Xxx

Mo

User
Posted 05 Sep 2016 at 19:53

Lyn, Chris and Dan,

Thank you for your recent posts!

After my negative meeting with the ED Consultant in April, having been encouraged and inspired by this forum, and trusting my own instinct, I have continued with 5mg of cialis daily. I take this at c9:00am which I find works best to minimise the side effects.

I wake most mornings with a good sized usable erection and sometimes it happens during the night! I'm also able to achieve an erection with sexual stimulation, although not when i'm solo. I am now always able to achieve penetrative sex. Sometimes my erections are granite like but usually more like sandstone, and guess what happens to sandstone when it get's wet, it crumbles!!!

It is now rare for me to achieve an orgasm when i'm having penetrative sex or even when fully erect, that bit just isn't working for me! However, the 5 fingered widow usually does the trick!

I'm now 17mths post op and pleased with my progress! I get my next PSA results next week on the 15th, so fingers crossed!

Thank you all for your fabulous support, it really has been a most humbling journey, you are all amazing!

Pablito :-))

User
Posted 05 Sep 2016 at 20:09

Hi Pablito, Men,

Maybe you/we all have to get used to a new era of erection handling/dealing with?

Some are in our control, we can get one as and when we need it, others, when ever it pops up?

For some reason I am ready and willing at 0400 every morning. Even if I have exercised the previous evening. No idea why?

No amount of beer puts LCB99 off, apparently. He is ready for aerobics and the mini gym every evening.

If you have an understanding partner, wake them too and make good use what you have. If you do not have an understanding partner, get on with it and deal with the flack later, with a big smile on your face. Maybe buy some flowers later that day.

Okay, so the above is a tad tongue in cheek, but use it or lose it, and eventually you may get more control over when and where?

But DO NOT give ups hope. Improvements may still be achieved, and keep improving over 3 years down the line.

dave

Do all you can to help yourself, then make the best of your time. :-)
 
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