Hi LynEyre
Thank you for your comments, Chris you too. I had not even thought about aftercare.
It's a minefield. I could write a long, boring and contradictory blog on the subject... wait a minute....?!
Probably conjecture but I came away from the NHS doctors (1st keyhole lap, 2nd radiotherapy) with the feeling that they were in competition - no doubt conjecture on my part. However the consultations were recorded and I listened carefully afterwards. The RT doctor couldn't get his CD player to work, I used my phone. There were a couple of things that on reflection irked me, and the London doctor (Harley Street) was polite but quizzical on the NHS surgeon's HIFU comments, which he explained were quite erroneous. The keyhole lap surgeon did say that if I were 50 he would strongly recommend a prostatectomy, if I was 75, HIFU but as I'm an ostensibly fit 66 year old, he said I was in the middle and good luck with the choice.
Apparently the London surgeon (described as a Top Doctor on the web) and his multidisciplinary team discussed my case last Thursday and arrived at what appears to be a more in-depth conclusion than was the case with the NHS. Who knows, but I have much more confidence with the London doctor and his team. Ultimately it will boil down to luck but I am trying to make a judgment that I won't regret later.
Update: Aviva has now responded - the lady has been immensely helpful I must say, but unfortunately there is likely to be a large shortfall (maybe £10k+ and I don't know about aftercare). She has suggested another surgeon and hospital who are covered and I'll start the process again. Before emailing me, Aviva kindly checked with the 'new' surgeon's secretary and I can still be scheduled for December. I'm very keen to move forward quickly although it's clear that the cancer has been there for years - again, sheer luck that through a chance remark to my GP that it came to light.
I also have an old critical illness cover policy which expires next February, after 17 years. Maybe this will be successful, I'll believe it when I see it but in any case I am lucky to have PMI through a client's group scheme (I'm a consultant - a very old one).
Onwards and upwards!
Best wishes,
Kenny