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Posted 27 Aug 2020 at 11:01

Thanks Clare

We have been at home , isolating for the whole 5/6 months. Not once shopping or eating out just taking deliveries. Enjoying the garden in mostly good weather. Cycling in the fields for exercise. Best at our age.
I presume you had to work and if A is self isolating you unfortunately had to stay apart. That was tough.

Hope he gets the HIFU on the 4th, the waiting is terrible, difficult making plans and you have booked a Hotel as well!

Thanks for the advice to ask for instigal. Yes my wife will have to drop me, drive home to Herts, and return later to pick me up. 

Will get around to making a post on my thread soon.

Good luck to you both.

Bill

 

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Posted 28 Aug 2020 at 12:50

Hi Clare

Hope you can enjoy the bank holiday and hope you get things back to normal ASAP.

Goos this end. Bit of a run around getting my 9 month PSA test result but just came back as <0.006 so good thus far. 

Cheers

Simon

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Posted 28 Aug 2020 at 13:56

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Thanks Clare

We have been at home , isolating for the whole 5/6 months. Not once shopping or eating out just taking deliveries. Enjoying the garden in mostly good weather. Cycling in the fields for exercise. Best at our age.
I presume you had to work and if A is self isolating you unfortunately had to stay apart. That was tough.

Hope he gets the HIFU on the 4th, the waiting is terrible, difficult making plans and you have booked a Hotel as well!

Thanks for the advice to ask for instigal. Yes my wife will have to drop me, drive home to Herts, and return later to pick me up. 

Will get around to making a post on my thread soon.

Good luck to you both.

Bill

 

Sounds idyllic Bill. All confirmed now for A at 3.30pm on Friday 4th. COVID test / urine tests to be done at the hospital on the Tuesday.

We do both work from home but had some work being done in the house ( we moved in lockdown into a house with no wardrobes or bookshelves) so decided we really wanted the fitting done so split the house. It was a hard two weeks. Much better doing it together this time!

A bit far for us to travel so yes we are booked in for a second 'HIFU mini-break'!

Hoping that the tiny bit left just needs mopping up! Ever the optimists!

Enjoy the bank hol

We will have to 'compare notes' after

Regards

 

Clare

 

 

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Posted 28 Aug 2020 at 13:59

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hi Clare

Hope you can enjoy the bank holiday and hope you get things back to normal ASAP.

Goos this end. Bit of a run around getting my 9 month PSA test result but just came back as <0.006 so good thus far. 

Cheers

Simon

Really great news Simon... You really owe your surgeon a drink I think! It looks like a blinder was played on the day  of your op!

Enjoy the bank holiday

 

Clare

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Posted 28 Aug 2020 at 17:04

Indeed. The Prof Whocannotbenamedonhere is a legend. Initially after surgery neurosafe frozen sections indicated potential focal involvement near the base. He did some Picasso grade work in terms of bladder reconstruction and taking a precautionary wider margin. Histology came back ~ 7 days showing all margins were in fact clear under paraffin stain. So fingers crossed the undetectable PSA’s  continue as I’m mindful things can return years later. Living for the moment more prominent than ever 🍻

Edited by member 28 Aug 2020 at 17:06  | Reason: Not specified

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Posted 05 Sep 2020 at 10:05

Hi Clare

Hope your A’s HIFU went as well as mine yesterday. I was first on operating table @ 9 after seeing my consultant who confirmed would do areas on right side as In my stream (Not proposing to continue stream as it is ‘waiting HIFU’) which happy no longer. Will have to wait til JANUARY to get psa.

I am pain free so far in bottom and only have pinches in penis occasional.

I could have done with the group talk on the catheter which A didn’t need. Up half  the night Worrying about it. Ok now once got gravity sorted. Asked about Instigal but no joy. Had been given plenty of the bigger (200) night (one use only) bags but was getting to over 150 in a few hours. Have been drinking only water since midday before the op. Consultant advised soft stalls required.

Hope you get the results you want.

Bill

 

User
Posted 05 Sep 2020 at 19:11

That’s good to hear Bill. A got HIFU’d ( again! ) yesterday too and she said it went well for fingers crossed for you both.

Discharged with his catheter, antibiotics, diclofenac, tamsulisin and lactolose.

He has got instigel ( had to ask and maybe as it’s going on a BUPA bill they are more chilled!)

He had more pain yesterday when he came round than last time ( feeling like he had a full bladder despite being on a bag). It went off in a couple of hours and he was moved to a flip lock catheter with a night bag and stand.

 I met him outside the hospital which was strange but nice to be out of self isolation!  

He feels at bit bloated, is a bit bunged up  and had a bit of blood at the tip earlier today but urine is a good colour so just taking it easy, resting today with a pre dinner short walk and back to bed.

TWOC booked in for Monday and MRI a week after that on Monday 14th. 

Fingers crossed for you both

Hope you are resting! 

Clare

 

User
Posted 06 Sep 2020 at 03:04
Am hoping for great results for 'A' and Bill as we all are.
Barry
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Posted 06 Sep 2020 at 13:24

Thank you Barry.  It is not too unusual for a second HIFU but still some go on to needing a radical treatment but we are definitely fingers crossed that this may have sorted it... 

Taking things easy but we visited the Wallace Collection  after breakfast today. It is round the corner from where we are staying and fascinating. 

Back for a rest, trying not to let him overdo it. 

User
Posted 07 Sep 2020 at 21:38
Three nights with catheter went quite quickly and TWOC today went well so headed home tomorrow.

As ever the first pee on removal of the catheter was painful and he still feels at bit bloated but had a nice walk and he is feeling good.

As ever I like to keep a report!

User
Posted 07 Sep 2020 at 22:00

Thanks for keeping us informed. I hope this one finishes it off, but even if it doesn't, A has managed to push the radical treatment a few years down the line. 

Dave

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Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 01:27

Thank you Dave, consultation on Monday. 

I am finding myself not wanting to answer calls/ answer texts from people who are asking how it went etc..  

Putting off replies as I just want to know what yesterday’s MRI shows and a knot of fear is growing .

As a result I had a big telling off ., note to self to reply to texts promptly! 
Been a bit of an ostrich this week and strange I can post here but not engaging well in my real world. 

Yes a definite knot of fear 

User
Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 06:54

Hi Clare

So sorry to hear how fearful you are while you wait for ‘A’s results. It’s this waiting that can get you down. My 6 months wait for my HIFU was worse for my wife and I than the op. No need to reply, I just wanted to show empathy . I have no symptoms just a wait like you to see if the HIFU has worked.

Bill

 

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Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 12:17
It seems perfectly reasonable not to want to reply to people when you don't know the answer yourself so I don't think you should be apologetic about it. Ostriches are beautiful birds - do what is best for you, not for others.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 14:25

Good luck for A’s consultation on Monday Clare, have everything crossed for you both xx

User
Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 22:14

Thank you Bill 

This is the best thing about this community. People do understand the anxiety that comes with all this.  Whether it’s a regular PSA test result or post procedure MRI or waiting for a treatment... woah it can get to even the most grounded can’t it.

And then there’s the having no symptoms and having to have treatment anyway...

All the best. I appreciate the empathy. 

Clare

 

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Hi Clare

So sorry to hear how fearful you are while you wait for ‘A’s results. It’s this waiting that can get you down. My 6 months wait for my HIFU was worse for my wife and I than the op. No need to reply, I just wanted to show empathy . I have no symptoms just a wait like you to see if the HIFU has worked.

Bill

 

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Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 22:26

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
It seems perfectly reasonable not to want to reply to people when you don't know the answer yourself so I don't think you should be apologetic about it. Ostriches are beautiful birds - do what is best for you, not for others.

Aw thank you Lyn. Real low point yesterday. Clearly really naffed off my friend that I had gone quiet last week so got the full barrels over dinner. On the positive side A took my hand,  spelled ILY on my jeans and calmly at his most eloquent mellow self took my side. I don’t think I’ve ever loved him more,!

Yes you are right Ostriches are fab! 

User
Posted 16 Sep 2020 at 22:27

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Good luck for A’s consultation on Monday Clare, have everything crossed for you both xx

Thank you Spaniel. Really appreciate that xx

User
Posted 21 Sep 2020 at 18:45

The consultation happened by phone today and the consultant says the MRI shows no sign of the tumour.

there was palpable relief around including her!

a wide margin was taken she said and there is evidence of some collateral damage on the rectum which should heal in about 3 months she said so he needs not to get constipated. This is net an issue for A and he’s feeling fine so we are hopeful it’s minor.

 

The knot of fear is subsiding and back to monitoring

 

Thanks all

Clare

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Posted 21 Sep 2020 at 19:59
That’s great Clare. Let’s hope that will be that but as you say, keep monitoring. Good both A and I have got our HIFU s out of the way before this second wave of the virus that looks imminent.

Good luck for the future.

Bill

 
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