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Possible spread to right hip bone

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Posted 11 Feb 2020 at 11:18

Just an update on my husband’s journey...  Keith has had 4 of six chemo docetaxel sessions.  Side effects have been excruciating back pain, so they now give meds intravenously and chemo infusion slowed down (which means we’re there for about 5 hours), itchy sore skin on hands, on neck, under arms.  Prescribed meds and cream to help.  The first two weeks after chemo has suffered low moods (very tearful), bone and muscle pains and extreme tiredness. Keith is usually quite active, (have never known him fall asleep in the arm chair during the day before);and was fit and healthy prior to prostate diagnosis but this has definitely knocked him sideways.  On the third week following chemo he appears to be okay and carries on with his carpentry and 3D printing hobby.

Cold Cap - Keith wanted to keep his hair if possible and decided to try the cold cap (was a little concerned as he suffers visual migraines). If you decide on cold cap apparently you need to wear this on your first chemo session and if ok you then continue wearing it on each session, you can’t not wear on first session and then decide to try it out as will not be successful.  On the first three sessions the cold cap was put on and allowed to go cold slowly and Keith found this acceptable, although did go through a brain freeze for a short while. On the fourth occasion it was switched on prior to him wearing it so was really cold to start and he found this quite unbearable but stuck it out.  Therefore he will be making sure it’s on his head first before being switched on for his fifth session.  Just wanted to let others know if they are thinking along these lines.  Keith’s hair is thinner but he still has a full head of hair, no patches, he is really pleased (so something on the plus side in the scheme of things). Scan towards the end of March at end of chemo.  Everything crossed that it’s worked.

 

 

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Posted 11 Feb 2020 at 11:19

Just wanted to say good luck and best wishes to all on your treatment.  I follow every day hoping to hear good news from you all.

Angex

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Posted 11 Feb 2020 at 17:08

My oh has his 5th chemo next week. Fatigue is an issue  as he can suddenly feel utterly drained but he continues to do most things. He has had pc for nine years, having had ht, radiotherapy  then a short break when things got back to normal but then put on zoladex due to psa rise. He then had arberatitone for nearly two years before psa steadily rose again. He is now on chemo and will be on zoladex  for life.

There are days when it all becomes a bit overwhelming but he soldiers on.

I hope all goes well for you and we will know after next scan if the current treatment is working.

It is hard but we all keep going somehow.

 

 

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Posted 11 Feb 2020 at 22:53

Thank you so much for your encouraging post.  Keith appears to be following a similar journey to the one your oh has been on for the last nine years.  He was diagnosed in September 2019 with a PSA of 10.8 and Gleason 3 + 4 with spread to seminal vesicles and possible spread to his right hip bone.  Keith’s Onco decided he should have chemo rather than the radiotherapy because of the spread. 

Like yourselves, we were totally overwhelmed and felt as though our lives were in limbo, but as time has gone on we seem to be able to cope better and just keep carrying on as best we can, enjoying our time with our family and our lovely grandchildren.  We will know more following Keith’s sixth chemo session and scan in March and are keeping positive.  We are looking ahead now and hope to have a holiday in May/June.  We promised ourselves new bikes for Xmas, which we still need to do, and exercise more. That’s the plan anyway.....

It has been encouraging to read that there are so many treatments out there, following chemo, if needed.

We sincerely hope your oh receives good scan results following his chemo sessions.

With very best wishes to you both, Ange & Keith

 

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Posted 24 Mar 2020 at 22:54

Hi, an update on Keith’s progress.  Following his last chemo a week ago he was awaiting CT scan on the 30th March and a follow up meeting with his Oncologist on 16th April. However,  Keith had a phone call today to say they have had to postpone that date for CT scan and would be rearranging.  We are not sure if this is due to the COVID19.  We did feel that he was lucky to have his last chemo and are so sorry to read on the forum of some chemo cancellations.

Three monthly HT prostap injection due on 1st April so need to enquire how to proceed with that under these very worrying circumstances.  We have both been self isolating at home since last Tuesday’s visit to Oncology.  Our daughter has made sure we have medications and groceries, so very fortunate there.

Keep safe and we are thinking of you all.  Ange x

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Posted 26 Mar 2020 at 18:42

It is good to hear your reports and even though no one may reply many are still reading them. Please keep writing if you can.

Fingers crossed that Keith’s treatment is all working. 

Stay safe and good luck

Phil

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Posted 26 Mar 2020 at 19:49
Hi Ange

I've got my next prostap jab on 2nd April, GPs cancelled my appointment and said the District Nurse will do it as a home visit so maybe worth confirming.

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Posted 26 Mar 2020 at 21:13

Thank you Phil, very much appreciated.  I follow everyone’s progress on this forum and feel for every person going through their own challenges with prostate cancer.  Until Keith’s diagnosis I hadn’t realised what an impact this particular cancer can have on men’s lives and the anxiety/depression it brings with it with changes in hormones and testosterone. I always hope to read good news from all and my heart goes out to those when it’s not so good.  I feel it helps to know that we are all supporting each other.

It was great to hear of your progress on completion of HT and I sincerely hope this continues and your testosterone levels improve, which in turn will help towards your recovery mentally. 

Keith does not know when his scan will be now but we are both still hoping and praying that the hip lesion is not cancer.  We know that Keith will have to be brave like so many if that is the outcome and take solace in the fact that there are many more treatments that can help stop progression for some time.

Thanks again for your support.

Angex

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Posted 26 Mar 2020 at 21:34

Hi Jasper,

Thank you for this information.  Keith will speak to our surgery nurse tomorrow to check whether this will be the same scenario for him.

i see your treatment commenced as Keith’s, HT followed by chemo.  Great to see your progress following your chemo and EBRT sessions.  So encouraging to read.

All the best going forward.

Ange x

 

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Posted 27 Mar 2020 at 10:28

Thank you Ange. 😊

Really hoping Keith’s lesion is not cancer. Fingers crossed.

As you are seeing everyone’s journey is slightly different , some much more difficult than others unfortunately. 

I don’t write often on the forum but it helps me that there is a real community here all offering help and advice, and often just someone wishing you well makes you feel a bit better. It feels that there is someone listening that understands.

Best of luck on your journey together.

Phil

User
Posted 27 Mar 2020 at 10:44

Bless you x

User
Posted 29 Apr 2020 at 10:53

Hi, just to update on Keith’s progress.  Oncologist phoned on 16th April and apologised for delay Re. CT scan and will rearrange ASAP.  He was pleased that last PSA reading was below 1.0 and Keith was quite upbeat following their conversation. Another PSA test in July 2020.

We now await new date for CT scan, and are keeping everything crossed for a good outcome.

We have taken delivery of our new bikes today (our Xmas gift to each other) Keith just needs to assemble them, after leaving them in boxes for 72 hours.  We will then start our keep fit regime and see if Keith can loose some excess weight he has put on since commencing his HT.  

Moving forward....


Take care and we are thinking of you all.

Angex

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Posted 30 Apr 2020 at 11:02

Hi Ange,

Hope you can get the scan booked sooner rather than later, but everything is messed up at the moment in the hospitals.

Good news with the PSA and the ED 😉.

Enjoy the bikes , fingers crossed we don’t get too much more rain . We keep saying we’ll get out on ours but the wife works as a dispenser in a chemists so doing extra hours at the moment which makes it difficult.

Take care

Phil

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Posted 30 Apr 2020 at 12:55

Hi Phil,

What a coincidence, receiving your message today, Keith had a call from CT X-ray this morning to say scan will be at a private hospital and gave him three choices, so he’s taken the closest to home and now waits to hear from them with a date.  I must admit it will be scary with the virus but would hope that all precautions will be taken.  I wonder if they’ll be testing all patients prior to going in!  We will ask that question when they call.  Things do seem to be moving along now, just hope results are good.

i am assuming that if the lesion is same size as on the first CT scan then conclusion would be that it’s an old injury and not cancer?  

Thank you for your kind thoughts and hope you and your wife find time to get your bikes out soon.  My bright green cycle hat arrived today!! Don’t know what’s come over me, I usually like to not be noticed.

Very best wishes to you both.

Ange

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Posted 30 Apr 2020 at 13:35

That’s great news Ange. I’m sure they’ll be testing for the virus and taking all the precautions needed. Fingers crossed for the results regarding the lesion 🤞.

Bright green is a good idea, always need to be seen on a bike 👍. I got a new hat the other day too but mine is a more sedate blue....my wife’s is a nice bright pink....her name is Angela , I presume yours is too ?

Keep us posted. Good luck and have a good ride .

Phil

 

User
Posted 30 Apr 2020 at 14:25

Thank you Phil.  Will let you know the outcome.

Hope all keeps going well for you too.

All the best,

Ange (Angela)

User
Posted 06 May 2020 at 22:08

Hi All,

My husband Keith had his CT Scan today (local private hospital arranged by NHS) so only postponed for five weeks which, under the present situation with Covid, hasn’t been too long.

No idea how long it will take to get results but has an appointment arranged to see his Oncologist on 16th July.  Hopefully we will have a phone call from him way before then.

A very anxious wait now.

Take care all and we are thinking of you.

Ange

User
Posted 07 May 2020 at 13:06

Hope you get the results for Keith’s CT scan soon and hopefully the results you want too.

Take care

Phil

User
Posted 07 May 2020 at 16:00

Hi hope you don’t stress to much waiting for the bone scan results. It was probably the most anxious I’ve been since being diagnosed with PC. It’s not easy to carry on regardless but I’m sure it will pass quite quickly and you get the results that you hope for.

Carl.

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Posted 08 May 2020 at 11:16

Thank you Phil & Carl.  We’re very anxious and I must admit I’m feeling shaky today and Keith’s stressed but we’ll try to keep focused, as we all do in these circumstances.  Keep walking our beautiful Cocker Spaniel.... Perhaps go for a bike ride early evening.  Still waiting for Keith’s cycle hat to arrive, oh well he can wear my bright green one and I’ll borrow my Grandson’s Spider-Man one!!

Take care all,

Angex 

 
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