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My head's still spinning!

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Posted 13 Sep 2019 at 15:24

Did you see our replies on your other thread?

https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t21679-Slightly-----confused#post223865 

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 13 Sep 2019 at 15:41

Hi Lyn, many thanks for your message, no I hadn't seen replies to my other thread - like an idiot, I neglected to check the notification box (in my defence, for whatever reason, it wouldn't register when using my tablet) so I was blissfully unaware.. I also assumed that it would be under my username ( god. I'm rubbish at these new fangled things, although I can programmena VHS recorder really well)

Should be having MRI later next week & hopefully that will give me answers, although it is reassuring that other tests are available.

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Posted 13 Sep 2019 at 16:34

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
..... although I can programme a VHS recorder really well

 

😂

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 29 Sep 2019 at 15:29

Had my neck MRI last Monday afternoon, 'twas a bit of a trip down memory lane for me, it was in a mobile unit ( 1st MRI I had in UK was at King's Mill hospital in the mobile unit- circa 2004) all was fine, other than it was raining when I came out & got wet getting back into the hospital.

Has a call on Thursday from Sue, my Nurse Specialist asking if I had heard anything (thought she would have access to results before me) & to let me know that my transfer to Royal Derby Hospital had been agreed & who my Consultant will be. Now I just need an appointment. So a happy bunny to be nearer home although I can't fault the support I've had at King's Mill, they've been excellent.

Now just need the MRI results & a letter from Royal Derby. Postman watch week.

A quick footnote, I'm hoping to get to the Derby Support Group on Tuesday 8th October if anyone on the forum goes, please let me know.

Cheers. Steve

Edited by member 29 Sep 2019 at 15:35  | Reason: added footnote

User
Posted 01 Oct 2019 at 14:21

Good news day!!

Phone call from Nurse Specialist this morning, my neck MRI shows no sign of Cancer🎉🎉 it's just knackered, no spinal compression,no suspicious bulges. But (good old but!) I have a lesion on my Thyroid which they don't want to treat at the moment & I also have a cyst on my Epiglottis which they do want to investigate,so I'm getting a quick referral to the ENT Specialist. But no more cancer found!!

I've just been reading the article posted by Old Barry about HIFU it seems to be a superb option, hope it's available at Royal Derby Hospital & that I'm a suitable candidate. Just a bit concerned about the perineural intrusion on the right side of my Prostate.

Anyway, today's a very good day!!

Cheers. Steve

User
Posted 01 Oct 2019 at 16:13
Brill
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 16:23

Well, I wasn't quite expecting that!

Met my Urology Consultant at Royal Derby yesterday, he actually went through my results & had a discussion with me. It seems my case is unusual in that I have a very aggressive cancer with a low PSA (currently 8.9), he showed me my MRI & explained the conclusions.

The majority of my cancer is towards the bottom of the Prostate & there is no possibility of nerve sparing, also, it appears to be at the edge of the seminal vesicles. He is happy to carry out a Robotic prostatectomy but his opinion is that the Gleason 4+5 may well be upgraded & they may well not "get it all" with me requiring further treatment down the line.

In respect of HIFU and Brachiatherapy, it is felt that neither of these options are suitable. So my choices are Surgery or HT+RT, which was a bit of a shock. As of yesterday, I am awaiting a date for Surgery, which provisionally will be either 22nd or 29th of October!!  Had rather be sleepless night during which I changed my mind half a dozen times (a situation I'm sure many on this site are familiar with.

Cheers for now. Steve

 

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 17:08

Steve,

It looks to me like you'd be a better candidate for RT+HT.

You stand a reasonable chance of retaining sexual function.

Your consultant sounds worried he might not get it all and it could be upgraded, in which case you'll likely require RT+HT anyway, but then you get both sets of side effects.

I would suggest speaking with a radiotherapy oncologist. A popular treatment for your type of case (high risk) is a combination of External Beam RT plus Brachytherapy.

In your bio, you mention DD. What's that?

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 17:35

Hi Andy,  Diverticulosis or Diverticular Disease, basically I toggle between diahorrea (mainly mucus or slime) and normal to constipation. From what I've read, Radiotherapy can potentially weaken the colon wall, although there may be others on the site with greater knowledge and understanding.

Certainly at 3am I was thinking why not just go for RT!!

Cheers. Steve

 

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Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 17:44

Hi Steve    It's your choice of course but if my husband was in your position I would rather he opted for the RT/ HT route if possible. My husband opted for the op with non nerve sparing. The PCa turned out to be contained but of course he has total ED now and very slight incontinence (about 97% there) which will be permanent.

Of course at the time we just wanted the best chance of full remission and we didn't really appreciate how much we would miss our normal sex life until some time after the operation.

In your case as the operation alone seems unlikely to put you into long term remission think very carefully about whether you want the side effects from the operation not to mention the pain and recovery time involved only to have to undergo RT/HT anyway with its own set of side effects. Either treatment is not a walk in the park so why put yourself through both. 

As Andy has said I would recommend you discuss with an Oncologist also.

Good luck with whatever route you take.

Ann

Edited by member 11 Oct 2019 at 17:48  | Reason: Not specified

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Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 18:05

Many thanks for your reply, I fully understand what you're saying, I think that it's easy to get carried whilst in the consultation along with, you can have surgery & follow it up with RT but not usually the other way around. I've sort of convinced myself that the ED isn't really an issue (I'll be 68 at Christmas & am currently on so many meds for other issues that I suffer with it now)

I'll be doing a lot of thinking over the weekend along with talking to my poor beleaguered wife! and anticipate a slightly arkward phone call on Monday.

Cheers. Steve

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 18:13

Steve,

Given the DD, you might consider RT with SpaceOAR (stands for Space Organ At Risk), an injectable spacer that pushes the prostate and rectum apart, so the anterior rectal wall doesn't get the full RT dose. Normally, SpaceOAR is not available on the NHS (although they are evaluating it). It is not recommended to high risk patients because of the theoretical risk of pushing micro-mets away from the prostate where they won't get irradiated. However, your DD might sway it in your favour, and it's worth asking if you could have it on the NHS due to the DD. It's around £3000 if done privately. There is a trial at UCLH called ICEMAN, which is using SpaceOAR on high risk patients, the idea being to find out if there's any substance to the theoretical risk of pushing micro-mets away from the prostate and the X-ray beam. Obviously, being a trial, it might not work (in that you might get recurrence due to a surviving micro-met), but that's a risk you would need to weigh up against exposing DD to RT (and I've no idea what the risks of that are). It might be worth contacting UCLH for advice.

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 18:37

Hi, I seem to remember having read something about this, well worth a bit more research. I'd actually convinced myself surgery wouldn't be an option because of the PNI so I think I was more easily swayed when it was offered.I was looking at Brachiatherapy before seeing the Urology Consultant.

More pondering... Cheers Steve

 

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 21:23

S

A lot to consider there and I don't envy your decision making process. If you had attended Nottingham, the MDT oncologist would probably have been recommend  surgery based on all the things that are often described on here as flawed thinking. 

Thanks Chris

 

User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 22:25
Andy,

Just as a matter of interest and using the logic of using Space Oar where RT was employed, I took the opportunity of asking UCLH at one of my check up appointments whether it might benefit HIFU treatment. I was told they had tried it with HIFU and it blew right threw it so a no there.

Barry
User
Posted 11 Oct 2019 at 22:49

Barry,

When SpaceOAR is used with HDR Brachytherapy, the needles (or proper name, catheters) have to be put in the prostate before SpaceOAR is installed, because the ultrasound rectal probe can't see through the spacer. I guess if the SpaceOAR absorbs ultrasound, then it would absorb some/all of the HIFU energy, which would explain that.

Come to think of it, I think HIFU also uses ultrasound guidance, so it would probably also have problem seeing through the spacer for targeting.

Edited by member 11 Oct 2019 at 22:51  | Reason: Not specified

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Posted 12 Oct 2019 at 11:28

Hi Chris, yes, a lot of pondering going on, I think a call to the Nurses on here on Monday morning, they tend to deal in realities & give candid advice. I haven't even mentioned it to Julie although I think she's aware I'm conflicted.In the meantime, a bit more reading I think.

Cheers. Steve

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Posted 16 Oct 2019 at 18:09

Hi, next & probably the biggest step in my saga...

I have my date for surgery (yes, after a lot of pacing & a call to one of the fabulous nurses on this site,  I'm going for the op) The date is 29th October!! I'm going in Monday afternoon, so hope it's the morning slot for the operation. Tomorrow it's shopping (yippee) for waterproof mattress covers & rubber rings😁😁.

Went to hospital yesterday & had the cyst on my epiglottis checked out, all is fine and I was discharged. If you don't like the TRUS procedure, you really need to try the camera up your nose & down to the back of your throat - not pleasant at all! Although I think it was worth the discomfort to find its all ok. According to the doctor I saw, they needed it doing to make sure I can be intubated for the surgery, it's astounding the things that required.

Anyway, I await the day.Keep you posted. 

Steve

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Posted 16 Oct 2019 at 18:26
Not sure that you will need a rubber ring, your belly will hurt most. Dunelm do a waterproof sheet that doesn’t feel like rubber; alternatively, you could buy some disposable puppy training pads from any good pet shop. Other shopping list suggestions:-

- a bucket to stand the night bag in

- underpants (not boxer shorts) in a size larger than you usually wear

- tracksuit bottoms in a soft material and dark colour; ideally with a drawstring waist rather than elasticated (M&S did sell some in sweatshirt material - not sure if they still do?)

- clarify whether the hospital will provide local anaesthetic such as instagell for the eye of your penis; if not, buy a tube

- a few (not hundreds yet) incontinence pads such as Tena for men or Boots own brand for men (also check whether they are provided on the NHS in your Trust

- books / puzzles

Assuming you are still having non nerve sparing, ask now about whether there is an ED service or andrology clinic in your area and whether it is the surgeon or GP that will need to refer you. The earlier the referral is in, the quicker you are likely to start on penile rehabilitation afterwards. Also, between now and the 29th October, you may as well start doing your pelvic floor exercises to get the technique right.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

 
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