Just wondering what others experiences are when the doctor gives bad news. The registrar told me the cancer had recurred but there did not seem to be any sign that she was aware of or to be honest bothered about the impact that news could have on my wife or me. It was like she was telling me i had a UTI or something.
She must have recognised that the news had not been accepted by us with glee as her response was ”C’mon youve been here before”. I told her we haven’t actually, but what if we had does that make it easier?? I do know that news of a recurrance can sometimes be harder for some people to take than the original dx so maybe the Doctor shoukd recognise that
Wouldnt it be wonderful if the medics would show some level of empathy and maybe even go as far as offering some advise to us.
It just shows that we are basically just a big part of the statistics jigsaw and treated as such
Bri