Hi, I've just joined and your conversation is the first I've read. Fascinating to hear about IFS, it certainly sounds like an advance in prostatectomy techniques.
Too late for those of us who have already had surgery. Mine was 7 years ago.
Maria, I hope the results you get, (or got), today are good.
It sounds like things are going well and Steve is being well looked after.
His experience is similar to my own in that there's good indication that incontinence and ED can and will be overcome.
Since my surgery I can say I have sufficient confidence with these two to have remarried. Third anniversary in May!
I would say that it's early days for Steve and it can be a bit of a Rocky road. Confidence can be a problem and Steve should take any help or assistance offered. I wished I'd started on the pills and used the pump earlier, I think my road would have been less rocky.
One thing you may find, which is although things might turn out well, they'll never be quite as well as they used to be and success in one thing may cause issues with another.
Forewarned is forewarned and I hope Steve has been warned about the possibility of climacturia.
As I said, this is my first contribution on this site, I hope you found it helpful