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User
Posted 11 Sep 2018 at 13:57

50% of the cores on LHS is rather high - I suspect that will rule out AS as anything other than a short term holding position.


HIFU has good results as a salvage treatment but the outcomes as a radical (primary) treatment for HIFU have been very disappointing so far. If you have money, you could talk to Claret about travelling to the US for focal laser ablation?


I disagree with Fresh's statement above - that with 100% nerve sparing, permanent ED is unlikely. Even with complete nerve sparing there is still a high chance of erectile problems. NHS stats are that 90% of men can get an erection at 12 months either naturally or using mechanical/ chemical assistance after nerve-sparing but worth noting that this is about getting some kind of erection - the stats for achieving an erection sufficiently solid for penetrative sex are lower at around 80%. Plus, anecdotal evidence here suggests that it is worse than that and the surgeons may be over-reporting:-/

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"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
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Posted 11 Sep 2018 at 23:52

As regards HIFU, this has been refined over recent years so that some of the adverse side effects are reduced or have have been virtually eliminated. Unfortunately, it can't treat beyond the Prostate like EBRT for example and is less suitable for extensive cancer contained within the Prostate which can be removed by surgery. Where the tumour is small and particularly where it is on only one side of the Prostate, It can provide good results for very suitable patients, even as primary treatment and has the advantage that it can be repeated in need or be followed by RT. One big drawback is that parts of the Prostate cannot be reached due to limitations of the probe which is inserted through the rectum. So even a small tumour can't be treated in some parts of the Prostate which is another reason why this treatment may prove unsuitable.


The lady Dr mentioned in this link administered my HIFU at UCLH :- https://www.imperial.ac.uk/news/187086/prostate-cancer-ultrasound-treatment-effective-surgery/


 

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Barry
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Posted 12 Sep 2018 at 15:28

Hi Stephen,


My husband like you had surgery at the bottom of his list and it felt like an over treatment of a low risk ( though high volume ) diagnosis.


We would have chosen AS but as we could afford an out of pocket solution we travelled to the USA for a focal laser ablation (FLA). This is also available in Holland.


He is on 4 monthly surveillance in the UK ( down from 3 monthly) and still has his prostate with latest PSA of 1.44


only side effect was a dry orgasm ( happens in 30% of cases after FLA)


we uploaded scan here and had 2 phone consults before booking. In addition we asked our UK consultant for an opinion and her opinion was ‘if you can afford it, do it’


i am sure RP will not be around in the future.. your TURP point is interesting .. I hadn’t thought of that but seems a very good question.


FLA does not stop a radical treatment being taken up in the future if things change but for now lack of side effects means we have zero regrets. 


 


Good luck


Claret


 

User
Posted 12 Sep 2018 at 15:49
The attraction for surgical removal is just that no playing "whack a mole" with local recurrence or concerns that your remaining healthy prostate tissue will someday go rogue again.

FLA does complicate any subsequent RP and the BCR rates for FLA then RP are also worse.

Personally I think any miracle cure that eliminates the need for surgery will be genetic and chemical combined.
User
Posted 12 Sep 2018 at 16:12

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
The attraction for surgical removal is just that no playing "whack a mole" with local recurrence or concerns that your remaining healthy prostate tissue will someday go rogue again. 


And the ‘unattraction‘ of surgery is the distinct possibility of incontintence (not me - thank you Professor X), impotence (me - no thank you Professor X, not your fault), and the loss of penis length (down to either the Prof or his sidekick Da Vinci) which seems to largely go unmentioned and unmentionable here!


If, as in my case the post-operative biopsy showed spread to my lymph nodes, not shown on my MRI, although I have been told I am cured, I may end up having HT and RT anyway at some point in the future.


These are some of choices for you, and everyone here is trying to help you make the right decision.


Cheers, John

User
Posted 12 Sep 2018 at 20:06
Claret - I’ve been reading your profile and found the various places in the US and Holland that do this. Definitely interested in exploring further depending on the full disclosure of my diagnosis. Also looking at HIFU, cryo and VTP.

Decided for now that I need a clearer idea of exactly what I’m dealing with. I seem in some ways to be more concerned with ED, incontinence and shortened penis length, possibly still in denial about really how serious this potentially is and that these things may turn out to be the least of my worries. At the same time not relishing the possibility of dealing with these things for years, decades?

Reading the various back stories and profiles in here is somewhat sobering (and also encouraging at times) and I’m perhaps getting ahead of myself with the naive assumption that survival is a given. Lyn, as you pointed out, there seem to be a number of younger guys who discover this and subsequently succumb to this disease in very short order.

Have to admit I’m a bit all over the place emotionally, which is not like me and has caught me by surprise. Everything seems fine and I’m just getting on with things and then out of nowhere I just feel incredibly sad. Guessing this is normal :)

Once I’ve had this next consult I then also need to let my kids know what’s going on. They’re great lads but even though the youngest is in his mid teens, I’m not sure how they’ll cope.

My wife has been great, I really couldn’t ask for anyone better to be at my side through this and I’m pretty sure we’ll deal with things one step at a time.

I think I can live with horrific side effects, post surgery/RT, if I can be convinced, with evidence that it’s necessary - I’m just not there yet.

I’m fortunate in many ways. I have some health cover via work so will be seeking second/third opinions and I can also release savings/house equity if needed for self funding of focal therapies if that’s the way I think is best. My family are mostly grown up, with the exception of my teenage son - but it’s not like they’re toddlers or as if we were in the planning stages.

Still. It’s a shock. Given I’d quite happily spend weeks trying to decide on the best TV, laptop, lawnmower etc to buy, coming to a decision on this is going to take a little bit of time. In the meantime, going to work, putting my happy face on and no one is any the wiser. I’m fit, not overweight, don’t smoke, look healthy - not that the cancer gives a sh1t

Incredibly thankful you lot are out there - the amassed knowledge, experience, compassion and sense of humour here is humbling.
User
Posted 12 Sep 2018 at 20:18
I think it is natural to focus on minimising side effects although not everyone reacts the way you describe. John was a little older at 50 but he wafted away any suggestion of side effects such as ED / incontinence as issues that probably only happened to old men and therefore were not applicable to him. Naive, yes, but his ability to pretend it all wasn't happening turned out to be the thing that kept him sane.

I once heard good advice - to prioritise:
1. which option is most likely to achieve full remission
2. can I live with the definite and potential side effects of that option
3. if not, which is the option that will best balance my chance of remission with a risk of side effects that is acceptable to me
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
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Posted 12 Sep 2018 at 20:48
Good luck Stephen, we appear to be in the same camp re the importance of research before making a decision. We talked to the VTP professor in Israel but he was not considered appropriate due to the bilateral tumour. Our UK monitoring consultant was involved in the TOOKAD trial throughout but despite the positive results from the clinical stage 3 trial we seem no closer to an NHS focal treatment.

We could have had HIFU privately ( our monitoring consultant offered to do it but encouraged our FLA plan)

I agree with Frankj1 that the big breakthrough will be a vaccine or genetic solution but my husband was told by three consultants he would need to do something in 5 years though AS in the meantime would have meant QOL was maintained in the short term.

Currently our US consultant has delivered what he called the trifecta of no incontince, no erectile dysfunction and cancer control ( PIRAD 2 from PIRAD 4 and PSA 1.44 from 3.56.

Whatever path we choose we all know that no guarantees exist and reoccurrence is reported in guys with no prostate, those with an irradiated prostate, those on HT and all other chosen
treatments- there are miles to go to sort this out.

John - re penis length back in early 2017 I was seriously cross to find out this side effect ( from this forum) as the surgeon who recommended surgery ( always on the list of top surgeons in the uk) didn’t even mention it! We laugh now but after that consult my husband was ready to sign up for the surgery in complete ignorance of the true consequences)

So we are all different and quality of life ranked paramount for us given the low risk diagnosis.

All the best Stephen, it’s not a place anybody wants to be and the decision making period was the worst part for us. We found once a decision was made it got easier so feel for you.

Clare
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Posted 13 Sep 2018 at 00:04
Lest anybody thinks you will certainly avoid reduction in the size of your Penis with HT/RT, this is not the case as I can confirm.

In a recent interview the leading advocate of focal therapy in the UK discussed various treatments of which long term assessments can only be made but interestingly he said the way forward in the future may be by injection into the tumour
Barry
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Posted 13 Sep 2018 at 00:51
Yes, a disappearing penis and shrinking testicles is a common result of HT, as Barry says.

The other potential side effect of all treatment options, including AS if it is conducted properly, is life though - mustn’t forget that.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
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Posted 13 Sep 2018 at 01:05

There are quite a lot of conversations on here about loss of length / girth and the causes and I have posted on it numerous times. Our uro told us that he has had a patient who lost so much they could no longer urinate standing up. 


General rule is that with surgery, you will lose approximately the same length as the length of the prostate that has been removed. Some surgeons claim that this is a fallacy and the bladder simply sits lower in the pelvic cavity once the prostate has gone, but that isn’t the story we see on here.


Loss of testosterone can put the genitals into a pre-pubescent-like state, hence the disappearing balls.


Penile atrophy, whether that is through surgery-induced ED, RT induced ED of HT induced loss of libido, will cause loss of length and girth when erect. Lose it or lose it is a real thing - it is a scandal that not all men on HT are given advice and referral to an ED clinic when they first start treatment.

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"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard
User
Posted 13 Sep 2018 at 01:47

I did see at a glance on the front page of one newspaper this week that a man had been given 'bionic manhood' or put another way a willy had been constructed for him. It was also mentioned on the press review on Sky News. It would be interesting to find out more so will Google it though a bit late for me and at a rumored cost of £50,000 not cheap.!https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-no-penis-andrew-wardle-13230187


 


As in the Mail and Mirror - https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-no-penis-andrew-wardle-13230187


 


 


Bit off piste but may help some PCa deficient men in future!


 

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Barry
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Posted 14 Sep 2018 at 18:49

So, some good news. Bone scan was all clear 🙂


Saw the urologist today, same one that did my DRE during my initial referral. Seems like an eminently sensible and pragmatic chap. He went through the various options including AS, surgery and Brachytherapy. He was pretty clear that a focal approach wasn’t an option, but not overly clear why not.


Said with AS I could potentially ‘get away with it’ for years, but given there was some GS4 cancer his concern was that it at least has the potential to spread - at which point it’s either too late for a curative outcome or likelihood of NS is decreased and positive margins decreased. In addition there’s the psychological overhead of dealing with the anxiety.


Discussed nerve sparing and his view was it would likely be unilateral. I asked about neurosafe, but they don’t do it - subtext was that it adds additional time and cost so hasn’t really taken off across much of the NHS.


Discussed RT - stated that this is generally kinder to erections although my age was a concern due to length of time available to develop a recurrence, secondary cancers or other complications. But has referred me to an oncologist to explore further (also did a flow test so they have some data for that). Did state that salvage RP could be attempted post RT if needed.


Said I can get copies of my notes etc. Told me that the MRI wasn’t really good enough to get a clear steer on the location of the cancer - other than the LHS was suspicious - so biopsy wasn’t that targeted after all.


Cautioned that some other surgeons, whilst good, are also perhaps better at self promotion, so advised being wary of those that promise the earth - they don’t always deliver.


I’m edging toward a surgical option. Good curative chance, RT available as a backup plan and will have to cross fingers re continence and ED - although I think neurosafe is a potentially beneficial option to maximise chances of negative margins whilst maintaining function. My prostrate is relatively small at 20ml - so hopefully that reduces risk/extent of shrinkage ...


Ok - that’s enough for me for now. Keeping an open mind until I’ve seen the onco and been for a 2nd opinion with a certain Guildford based professor who has been mentioned on here several times.


Have a good weekend everyone!


 

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User
Posted 14 Sep 2018 at 19:08

Great news about the bone scan. 


There really is no focal option in the UK and to get an opinion from an overseas focal specialist you do need a really clear scan forcthem to assess. 


thanks For the update


Clare

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Posted 14 Sep 2018 at 19:26
That's really good news about the bone scan, Stephen. I remember how utterly petrified I was waiting for the results of my scan. I felt like the weight of the world had been lifted from my shoulders when my urologist said it was all clear.

Very best of luck, no matter what treatment option you go for.

Chris
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Posted 01 Mar 2019 at 17:03

A long overdue update from me. 


Firstly, you may notice that I've changed my username. When I first started posting here I hadn't told anyone other than my wife so needed to retain some level of anonymity until I'd let those who needed to know, know.


Anyway, so far, so good from my point of view.


I posted a public facebook post which details what happened to me and what I ended up doing about it (RARP with Retzuis sparing and Neurosafe at the end of October). You can find that here:


https://www.facebook.com/connell.mcmenamin/posts/10214747181606087


First PSA at the end of Jan 2019 showed PSA of 0.006ug/l - happy with that so far!


In terms of side effects, continence was 100% once the catheter had been removed and ED is improving. I'd say it's at about 85% right now with some of that being psychological I'm sure. Taking 20mg tadalafil 2x a week which seems to help a bit :)


 


Thanks everyone for your support, it was very much appreciated at the time.


 

User
Posted 01 Mar 2019 at 17:54
I had the same operation last June on the NHS with, I presume, the same surgeon as you, Professor Whocannotbenamedhere.

I couldn’t be more pleased with what I refer to as ‘virtually pain-free surgery’ - and I am a big baby!

So far, so good. Cancer-free. No good on the ED front though, and either the surgeon or his sidekick Da Vinci still owe me 2”!😉

Cheers, John.
 
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