Hi Johnny,
Best of luck with your choice. I am going to see an oncologist, but I suspect I will still go with the operation, especially as my PSA this week is up to 18 odd from 16 odd when raised PSA was first noted last November.
I find it very strange now when people ask “How are you?” I used to say “fine thank you”. Which I am, despite what doctors tell me! So now I just reply with a cheery “Still breathing”, instead of “I’ve got the Big C”.
You also find out who your true friends are when you let them know the diagnosis, either in person or on social media, some think you are at death’s door, (which I probably would be with liver, pancreatic or lung cancer), others ask “How are your results?”, “How did your consultation go?”. Some others don’t give a f***!
And they come out of the woodwork, two of my very closest friends around eighty years old confided in me they both have PCa, who knew? And two others in their sixties admitted they have waterworks problems and are awaiting the results of tests.
The whole thing so far has been a fascinating experience on many levels, and hopefully there is a “happy ending” in about eighteen months time, (in my dreams 😂😂😂😂)
Cheers, John
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