David
By now I expect your brain is going into overload.
"""I'm really struggling here. 50-60% chance of ED with surgery. ..and I've only been married 6 years...not fair! How is ED with RT and whatever MAY be needed in a few years?
You do not need an erection to have intercourse with a women and if you are lucky the experience is out of this world.
Hopefully you spoke to one of the site nurses as I feel some information given in this convesation contradicts prostatecanceruk and cancerresearhuk information regarding RT treatments and ED.
All treatments can carry risks and not all potential side effects are guaranteed. I looked at various options before my treatment and picked surgery with the hope of cure but knowing I still had options if it failed.
I am probably the worst advert for surgery (read my profile) but 4 days post catheter I was almost dry, CJ was dry from day one so was Fozzi Bear, quite a few others have been dry within a few weeks.ED is still work in progress but it is fun trying to find the right solution.
Once you have decided on your treatment you might then wish to research your surgeon or oncologist.
I wish you well with you choice of options.
Thanks Chris