Hi Paul 6Ft2
I hadn't quite got to the sending out a search party stage, but I have been thinking of you. It has been a traumatic year for you, losing your Dad, then your Mother in Law and now your own Mum diagnosed as you had suspected. Thank goodness you are doing reasonably well, OK not yet fully recovered but not given up hope of regaining both full continence and assisted EF.
Now that you are both retired I do hope you can start getting so much more time to do the things you both want to. I know golf will be right up there for you, but lots of other activities to be enjoyed too.
I wish you all the very best
xx
Mo