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User

Posted 18 Sep 2015 at 06:59

Such sad news.

RIP Rob

Don't deny the diagnosis; try to defy the verdict

User

Posted 18 Sep 2015 at 10:27

So sad to hear this. A knowledgeable man about PCA and a kind individual. RIP Rob.

User

Posted 18 Sep 2015 at 12:38

Sorry to hear this sad news. Please pass on my sincerest condolences to the family.

RIP Rob

User

Posted 19 Sep 2015 at 17:34

Rob was a dedicated survivor. He never stopped helping others while fighting his own disease. He always provided well informed answers and will be missed here and other forums in which he participated. RIP Old friend! Condolences to Michelle.

Ralph

Edited by member 19 Sep 2015 at 17:35 | Reason: Not specified

User

Posted 19 Sep 2015 at 19:42

I didn't know Rob however looking back he said some wise words to me on this forum late last year, people like him helped (and help) people like me make it through some of the crap us sufferers go through and his loss is as sad as any to this rubbish disease however he continues to give me hope that I will outlive my initial average prognosis. Hope there is an afterlife and if there is you are having a ball Rob, see you there I hope one day but a good few years time. Kev

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User

Posted 20 Sep 2015 at 17:22

Michelle has asked me to give details of
Rob's Funeral Service.

It will be held on

THURSDAY 24th SEPT @ 3PM

HOLY CROSS CHURCH
RAMSBURY
WILTSHIRE
SN8 2QH

B2PCa

User

Posted 21 Sep 2015 at 08:11

So sad to read this I didn't know how poorly he was either.

RIP Rob

My thoughts are with his family. X

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

User

Posted 21 Sep 2015 at 13:48

I did not know Rob, but obviously very well respected on this forum.

RIP my friend.

My Condolences to his family

User

Posted 22 Sep 2015 at 12:12

A really nice guy who shall be missed by all that knew him.

Rest easy Rob

Roger

User

Posted 23 Sep 2015 at 04:41

Terrible news

Sleep easy pal.

Bazza

User

Posted 24 Sep 2015 at 20:47

Hi,

Rob's funeral went well this afternoon. A very nice service, attended by family, friends, Chris & Shirley and me. Unfortunately, George wasn't able to attend due to travel problems (I'm sure he'll explain later).

The weather stayed fine for the important moments. We were made very welcome by Rob's wife, Michelle and his family.

Really pleased I was able to attend.

Steve

User

Posted 25 Sep 2015 at 16:30

Dear friends,

I wasn't able to get to Rob's funeral - after total early morning chaos on the railways lines in Northumberland just 20 miles north of Newcastle.

There was a major incident (we were told 'animals on the lines') and all Southbound trains were in a queue there from 6.30am. No trains arrived in Newcastle until 10am.

My 8.35pm one arrived at 10.05. Even so, there was still a chance I could meet Chris and Shirley at Oxford station in time for a drive across into Wiltshire.

BUT, things went from bad to worse. As the train approached Birmingham New Street, we were informed that the train would terminate there. That's when I had to abort my plans, and ring Shirley to tell her and Chris to go without me, as there was no way I could get another train to Oxford in time.

To say I am gutted at missing Rob's service is an understatement. The is nobody amongst my PCa friends I have known as long as I did Rob.

Man, it hurt.

However, I've heard from Chris and Shirley today. All went well, and Steve (NikonSteve) got along to the service too.

Never mind, I was there in spirit. http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-cry.gif

B2PCa

User

Posted 25 Sep 2015 at 16:35

George, the intention and effort were there.

It wasn't your fault that fate intervened and Steve and Chris and Shirley will have offered your apologies and explained on your behalf I'm sure.

I know you must be gutted but if he's looking down on you he will know how hard you tried to get there and show your respects and, as you say, you were there in spirit.

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

User

Posted 25 Sep 2015 at 20:06

Hi George,

I'm so sorry you didn't make it to the service yesterday. I know how hard you tried to get there. It must have been so frustrating. If there was anyway I could have picked you up from Birmingham and got you there on time, I would have done but I think time was against us.

Sandra is right when she says that Rob would have known how much effort you put in to try to be there. Chris & Shirley spoke with Michelle to explain the difficulties you had. She fully understood the situation and knew that you would have been there if you could.

I hope you get compensation from the train company.

Steve

User

Posted 26 Sep 2015 at 13:28

So sorry to everyone who knew Rob x

User

Posted 26 Sep 2015 at 21:02

It was a terrible for me tonight when I logged into a chat which Rob was a regular participant , to be told he passed away was chatting to him 4 weeks ago when he did impart not so good news to us. But I never suspected his end was so close, I take some comfort from the knowledge that his passing was peaceful. He was in the same position virtually as myself but about 18 months behind me in diagnosis terms, he helped me many times with his knowledge of this dreadful disease, we chatted just between us at the end of our chats, I am eternally grateful that we had that relationship.

To say I will miss him is a total understatement, there are so many of us who relied on Rob in so many different ways, his legacy in the field of PCa will survive him for many years which at this moment is the best tribute I can pay to our dear friend and helper.

I will miss Rob but keep him in my memory, RIP brother and a million thanks for being so helpful to me and many others.

Larry

Edited by member 26 Sep 2015 at 21:04 | Reason: Not specified

User

Posted 27 Sep 2015 at 11:57

George, you have had the misfortune of informing us on too many occasions the passing of members of this forum. It shocked me last night when I logged into the chat to be told Rob had passed away, I have been absent from the chat for three weeks which is very unusual for me. I did know Rob has serious issues but did not expect the news of his passing. It had been a rocky year for Rob with the progression of his PCa plus Michelle's health issues also, we supported Rob in the chat as best we could he appeared to accept his situation with his usual determination and vigour.

I hope you can accept that the efforts you made to arrive at Robs funeral although it ended in failure, was in no way your fault for some reason it was not to be. I appreciate you were and still are gutted but please do not blame yourself in any way. You made valiant efforts under extremely difficult circumstances both emotionally and logistically, so reflect on those aspects and feel rightly proud of your efforts.

Please do not reproach yourself in any way because you did not achieve your desired result. I pass on my sincere thanks that you always have the kindness and willingness to assist others when the need arises.

Larry

User

Posted 27 Sep 2015 at 15:19

Hi Larry,

Such heartfelt comments from you about Rob. We both know how much he did for so many over those long years.

What a great friend to have on your side.

Missing his funeral was just one of those things. I was mad as hell on the day though!

I was carrying an A4 envelope containing print-outs of all the touching tributes posted by his friends here and on other sites, and in the flood of emails sent to me by his friends further afield.

Next morning I posted them directly to Michelle and I hope she's received them by now. I know how much she wanted to read them.

Yes, you're right about me posting so many sad notices. They go back all the way to 2007 when I got the very first phone call from a bereaved wife. That call is forever in my memory.

I dread to think how many have passed away in the meantime.

On my own smallish website (B2PCa) we've now lost 41 friends since it began 9yrs ago.

Only about six weeks ago I was thinking we may get through the year without another loss after Mike Brooks's passing in January.

I knew the situation with Rob, but I felt sure we'd have him a while longer. Sadly, it wasn't to be.

One good thing we can treasure is the times we were lucky enough to spend with so many of these dear friends at The Mill in summer and The Euston Flyer in December.

It really is a consolation.

Rest In Peace Rob

George

B2PCa

User

Posted 02 Apr 2016 at 18:54

Dear Friends,

As most of you know, one of the greatest friends of this forum, Rob, passed away on 15th September last year.

Today I got the tragic news that his wife Michelle joined him on Tuesday 29th March.

They were both just 63rys old. Michelle's breast cancer had come back with a vengeance after Rob had gone.

I know many of you will have met them both, and will have such fond memories of the times we were all together at The Mill.

Rest In Peace Michelle

Back in the arms of your beloved Rob.

George, Lynn & Katrina

Edited by member 02 Apr 2016 at 19:55 | Reason: Not specified

B2PCa

User

Posted 02 Apr 2016 at 20:35

George,

That's such sad news. RIP MIchelle, back with her loving husband.

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