First of all, Luther,... so sorry to hear about your wife, life sure has many twists and turns, praying for strength for you good buddy.
Just to let you all know, my referral is this Monday, had a blood test last Monday, went for the result of the PSA on Friday,.. "Not back yet" said the receptionist,... I know my PSA is only .27 but when to start HT?... I'll see what onco says and report back, till then, take care and keep positive out there!... Sid x