Thanks all, this infection is taking some time to recover from and having two legs bags (i.e. Both catheters running) is hard to cope with. John is still feeling ill and is losing a fair bit of weight, which worries me but he has a low push appetite.
On another front, the company insurance sent a nurse to see me today to check if I'm still unfit for work. As I don't talk much about what's happening (only to you guys and one online friend, and that's write not talk), so I spent the whole hour in floods of tears talking about the things that have happened in the last twelve months. I am making an assumption that I'm still not fit for work, frankly it's the last thing I could do.
Next hurdle is the cystoscan on the 17th to check all the connections and after that more surgery to remove the stents and another dilation on Nov 1st. After that the urethral catheter will be removed and a trial will commence to see if urine can be passed the natural way. Since it's been ten months I think this will be a challenge. Anyway, one worth trying.
Lots of love
Devonmaid