Hi Sandra
Your post is very sad to read.
If they have changed your IMPORTANT appointment for 3 months later then that is awful in my view! If that happened to me I would be furious, although diplomatic with them as I always am. Also if the specialist nurses haven’t returned your call in 2 weeks that is very unprofessional. I know they are very busy folk …. but 2 weeks! When it’s about health it’s much about ‘peace of mind’.
As I have said before on this site – it’s your body (or your husbands in this case) and it’s your NHS as you pay for it. A PSA test takes seconds to take the sample and not much longer to do the test and provide feedback to you.
I think you need to be polite but very firm with them (either the hospital or your doctors surgery) to have a PSA test in February and a follow up appointment well before May unless they have evidence, and can convince you both, that for some strange reason it’s not necessary.
Take good care of each other.
dl